Letter to Saudi women: Please leave my husband alone!
Dear Saudi women out there who have the bad habit of stalking my Saudi husband. Please leave my husband alone. You drive me crazy!!
Not that this letter will be likely to ever reach you.
Could you just please stop staring at my husband and following him around when we are out together?
Yes he is married to a westerner, does that make you feel jealous or bitter that he didn’t marry one of his “own kind“?
Please just leave him alone, he is a shy guy. He doesn’t want the attention.
Staring is actually really impolite, did you know?
In fact leering at someone is viewed as inconsiderate and uncivilized.
Civilized people do not stare at strangers so recklessly.
Civilized people also do not whisper, point at people and giggle in their presence. Especially adults.
Shouldn’t you be minding your own business rather than gawking at him like he is an alien?
Or do you perhaps view him as a traitor? Since he is with me, a western woman who stole such great marriage material from a Saudi woman?
Yes, my husband is very handsome, tall and well-built. Are you checking him out? I think sometimes you are.
Please lower your gaze.
Wearing niqab is not an excuse to stare and does not give you the right to neglect the first part of the ayat of lowering gazes.
Aren’t you worried your husband if you have one, will notice you staring at another man?
Sometimes I’ve seen you with your husband, looking at mine.
Do you not feel guilty at all for leering at him so blatantly, and for flirting with an obviously married man?
What about batting your long fake eyelashes at him like you are the Queen of Sheba? Do you seriously think it has any effect on him?
And for your information, I am not a stupid, or blind. I can see very well you eyeing him from behind the anonymity of your niqab.
Sometimes you follow him around the store with your girlfriends like he is a piece of meat and you forgot to eat your iftar.
Or are you really this bored? If so, couldn’t you think of a more stimulating and intelligent way to pass your time than shopping and evaluating other womens husbands?
Can you please be a bit more respectful? My husband does not stare back at you, he has done nothing to you and just wants to do some shopping in peace with his wife.Sorry to disappoint you but he is not looking for a second wife.
Your co-operation is highly appreciated.
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