How I Met My Saudi Prince

The following is my personal love story from the ‘Magic Kingdom’ of Saudi Arabia. How I met my Saudi Prince post was originally published 2012 on the 4th anniversary of the day I randomly met who I thought was (and is) the most handsome and charming man I ever laid eyes on. I had left Finland to work in Saudi Arabia’s capital Riyadh in a large governmental hospital. The plan was to stay a year, maybe two exploring Saudi Arabia and the Middle East. Saudi Arabia as a country and culture had fascinated me quite some time before I’d made my final decision to take on the challenge of relocating there as a single western woman.

Before I left to KSA some of my friends, family and co-workers used to tease me that I will never come back to Finland if I go to Saudi Arabia. They would jokingly say things like “you’re so pretty an oil Sheikh will surely kidnap you and lock you in his palace” “a rich prince will sweep you off your feet, you’ll move to a palace and have 20 kids with him” and so forth.

My reply to them was: “not in a million years! I would never marry a Saudi guy!”.

Lol and now 7 years later, here I am, married to a Saudi guy and we have 2 kids (at times it does seem like there are in fact 20 of them in the house). So I called this post “Saudi Prince” because of the irony of it all.

Disclaimer: My husband is not from the Saudi royal family and no we don’t live in a palace either. 

how I met my saudi prince

..Exactly four years ago my shift at the Saudi hospital had started out like any other night. The allocated patients kept me busy and life seemed to be rolling on as usual. Little did I know that night would change my life for good.

I was thankful to have my friend “Katherine” working on the same shift, it was always a relief having another westerner and English speaking person to talk to during the night shift. We had again agreed to exchange our patients over to each other to enable a break in the middle of the shift.

The moment that would change my life happened very randomly. I was looking for Katherine to ask her which coffee she wanted from Starbuck’s. It was my turn to fetch that night’s caffeine dose and I was on my way down to the coffee shop. I saw her nurse presence light on in one room and decided to pop my head in quickly.

As I peaked in, Katherine was chatting inside with the patient and his relative. The Euro Cup football match was playing loudly on TV. She excitedly motioned me to enter the room further so curiously I did, at the same time asking what her Starbucks order was going to be.

As I glanced at the patient sitting there on his bed, something strange happened. As if time had stopped, like a missing piece had fallen into its place. A handsome young man looked back at me, equally baffled by the moment. For just a few seconds our eyes met and then both of us shyly looked away. I greeted the men with salaams and smiled. They replied back politely, not even looking at me for long but eyeing the floor or the TV. I had learned by now this was a sign of respect, not disrespect as my own culture would tell me. They did not want to make me feel awkward.

I felt a rush of blood going to my head, I was blushing now. Oh how I hated when that happened! I wanted to leave, but then I felt a certain curiosity of this man who I thought was probably one of the most handsome men I had ever laid eyes on. He had a certain sparkle in his eyes that intrigued me and his smile seemed to light up the room. I didn’t want to leave anymore.

I lingered for a moment, asking about the game on TV. The truth is I knew nothing about football, the only thing I cared about was the Italian football team, for other reasons than their skills. He made a joke about the Italians and we all laughed. I told him I was rooting for Italy and more jokes were thrown around. Secretly I was thinking to myself how the patient actually reminded me of an Italian football player with his long black hair brushed up in a ponytail and his smiling dark chocolate eyes.

When I couldn’t think of any more excuses to stay in the room I left to fetch the coffee. I kept thinking about the patient and wanted to ask Katherine about him. I felt drawn to go talk to him more. Later that night my chance came when Katherine and I swapped patients for her break.

Katherine had informed her patients she was leaving for an hour and meanwhile nurse “Layla from Finland” would be taking over. As she was leaving she teased me, “he will call you for sure, something tells me he wants to see you again. When you walked into the room it was like something made a “click” sound! I swear I could hear it!”

About five minutes after she left, the call bell rang. Room 42. It’s him! I was nervous to enter and felt my heart racing. The young man asked if he could get a pain killer. Sure, I said and left to check his files. When I returned he thanked me for the medicine and shyly asked a few questions about me.

I was amazed how it felt so easy to talk to him, his English was perfect and I forgot he was even Saudi. It was as if we already knew each other somehow. It became apparent that we had actually lived in the same area in the U.S as kids. What a coincidence! We talked about Finland and at some point I mentioned how we have so many moose there but I couldn’t remember how to say the plural. What was it, perhaps mooses? He laughed and told me it must be meese! To this day I remember that silly joke and how it made us both laugh so hard.  His smile filled my heart with joy.

Thinking back to that day and where I was in my life I realize how fortunate I was meeting this remarkable man. From that night shift, it has been a long, sometimes extremely hard but rewarding journey to where we are now. We have had to overcome so many obstacles on the way.

No one believed in us in the beginning, except us.

Never in a million years did I think something like this would happen to me when I landed on Saudi soil. When I left Finland for Saudi, people used to tease me, you will find a Saudi Prince there, fall in love and stay forever! I told them, in your dreams only! I guess sometimes fairy tales do come true.

 

 

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  • ShimshimJune 14, 2012 - 3:06 am

    Layla, you have such a great way with words. I loved your story and how things developed between you – in fact I am now even more intrigued and want to know more! I can see the parallels in your “struggle” to get to where you are now – I am still “struggling”, my other half is working in Riyadh whilst I am working in Indonesia for now – we have been “together” for 4 years too! Maybe next year we will both be in nearer countries! Keep up the good work and thanks for sharing ;)ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:27 pm

      Shimshim-thank you and I hope you will be able to live in the same country with your other half soon!ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 14, 2012 - 3:21 am

    Hi laylah, such a sweet story :) have always wondered how you met your significant other in saudi, I guess this answered my question :)

    SirehReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:28 pm

      Hi Sireh, thanks and I guess you could say it was totally randomly!ReplyCancel

  • DianaJune 14, 2012 - 3:47 am

    Please, please write some more. What happened after that? Love your blog!ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:29 pm

      Diana-thank you!Ohhh many many things happened after that. Maybe I really should start writing that book, eh?ReplyCancel

  • Mrs GebuJune 14, 2012 - 5:13 am

    It’s so sweet Layla…like a real fairy tale
    Thanks for sharing…ReplyCancel

  • Mrs GebuJune 14, 2012 - 5:13 am

    It’s so sweet Layla…like a real fairy tale
    Thanks for sharing…ReplyCancel

  • sessiJune 14, 2012 - 5:59 am

    Congrats on your anniversary!ReplyCancel

  • IldiJune 14, 2012 - 6:36 am

    Dear Laylah,
    i love your story! ♥♥♥ Wishing you many many happy years and cute kids more around! Finnish princess found love and got love back so far away from home and a different world! :D Thank you for sharing lovliest moments from your life.

    Kisses!ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:30 pm

      Thanks Ildi! Never would’ve thought to find love in this country!ReplyCancel

  • Star VogueJune 14, 2012 - 6:43 am

    lovely story may Allah SWT bless all marriages with long lasting love and happiness!
    http://starvogue84.blogspot.comReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 14, 2012 - 7:10 am

    Subhanallah!…what a beautiful story i was imagining the entire seen playing in my mind mashallah. Allah make it a long and happy marriage ameen.
    UmmLujaynReplyCancel

  • Muslimah in reverieJune 14, 2012 - 7:19 am

    Aww mashaAllah what a lovely story :). May Allah swt bless your marriage eternally,and place an everlasting love and mercy between you two always!ReplyCancel

  • Umm GamarJune 14, 2012 - 7:32 am

    Salammualaykum Laylah,thanis for sharing with us this story :) Subhanallah,we can never know how or when we will meet our soulmate. I met my Saudi Prince while in university here in Malaysia,he was cousins with a friend of mine and we too immediately ‘clicked’. Now we are blessed with a beautiful princess. Although,as you experienced, the journey to our marriage wasn’t easy,but Allah has willed our union ;) Laylah, how does his family accept/treat you as a non Saudi wife,may we know?ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:33 pm

      Umm Gamar-yes we can never know when that day comes! They have come to accept me and treat me very well alhamdulillah.ReplyCancel

  • Lady CarrotJune 14, 2012 - 11:30 am

    Very nice story :) wish you guys much much love and happiness inshallahReplyCancel

  • Karen KingJune 14, 2012 - 12:15 pm

    Magical! When I interviewed for a writing position with my husband’s company (our week anniversary was yesterday), everyone I met seemed to be impressed with me. I was asked by everyone, have you met David? Turns out my future husband was out that day, home with sick children. So many people mentioned David in that interview, that I knew there was something special about that man. I didn’t meet him until first day on the job, but I felt that same click, too. As we married last week, I remember bowing my head during prayers and thought about your true love. I pray that we are both happy with our princes and our lives forever. God blessed us, and I am so grateful! Thank you for sharing.ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 14, 2012 - 1:48 pm

    beautiful story..so sweet mashallah!.
    I am intrigued to know like Umm Gamar how his family accepted/treated you into their family..there are many girls going through similar situations and it will be nice to hear from someone who has experience.
    Your husband as you mentioned spent time in america so his family does that make his family a little less conservative to other saudi families who have never travelled and maybe more open to the option of the “dreaded western wife
    LOL?
    UmmLujaynReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:40 pm

      Well I can say that even though they all lived in US they are still very conservative, except for my husband I guess:)ReplyCancel

  • NoorJune 14, 2012 - 2:24 pm

    MashAllah Laylah what a beautiful story and I am so glad you found true love. Its so true we never know when it will happen. If you would have told me as a girl I would marry a Saudi and live here I would have never ever believed it would you lol. Oh I get the married a Saudi prince thing all the time to weird lol.ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:41 pm

      Noor, true I would’ve laughed and not believed as well! Life is full of surprises.ReplyCancel

  • FarooqJune 14, 2012 - 3:39 pm

    thanks for sharing the story Laylah. Remember a movie’s tag line. “Love will find a way” Well it sure did.

    In the words of the great (just kidding ok!) Justin Bieber, “Never say never” lol.

    My wife said she would never have imagined marrying an Indian but here we are 3 yrs this July and still going strong alhamdulillah.ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:45 pm

      Farooq-congrats to you for the upcoming anniversary!ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 14, 2012 - 4:06 pm

    Great story Layla. How long after meeting your husband did you become Muslim? Or are you Muslim? If not, would you consider it? Sorry for all the questions, but you have such an interesting life it leaves one wanting to hear more and more.ReplyCancel

  • DianneJune 14, 2012 - 4:15 pm

    Lovely story of how you guys met each other. Speaking of football, Euro2012 is going on right now, and as I type, I’m watching Italy vs Croatia. lol!ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:46 pm

      I’m still rooting for Italy to my husband’s annoyance ;)ReplyCancel

  • ربة منزلJune 14, 2012 - 5:37 pm

    Beautiful story. Made me smile all the way to the end. Starbucks must be your favorite coffee place today :)ReplyCancel

  • AliceJune 14, 2012 - 5:37 pm

    OMG, it’s love from first sight! You’re so lucky Layla! Or should I rather say: you are so BLESSED! Such love is a luxury, does not happen to everyone. I’m happy for you and hope this love will flourish forever!ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:49 pm

      Alice thank you! I don’t believe in love at first sight but it was definitely something at first sight :)ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 14, 2012 - 9:56 pm

    oh, thank you, such a lovely story…. please post part 2!ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:49 pm

      there would be probably up to part 200 if I continued the story :)ReplyCancel

  • Steve at the PubJune 15, 2012 - 12:25 am

    Lovely story, very well written. (I’ll take issue with the Italian football team though! I prefer my footballers to have machisimo.)ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:50 pm

      Steve-oh come one! Italians are a “league” of their won hahaReplyCancel

    • Ms. JMarch 26, 2015 - 3:26 am

      Ms. Layla

      Your story inspired me so much! I’m an expat nurse too here in ksa but not like you i think my love story in kinda complicated. I want to share it with you and ask some advice if you dont mind. I really need it from a person that can understand my situation.
      Hoping for your response

      Sincerely Yours,
      Ms.JReplyCancel

  • SoileJune 15, 2012 - 9:15 am

    Great story, you are soooooo lucky!ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:51 pm

      Thanks Soile! You never know who you will meet here ;)ReplyCancel

  • FeliciaJune 15, 2012 - 6:32 pm

    What a beautiful story! Wishing your family all the best with much happiness. When I first seen my prince charming his smile captured me too. Sometimes there is that instant connection that you cannot explain. Love is a beautiful thing!ReplyCancel

  • Madame KissankulmaJune 15, 2012 - 11:03 pm

    Wonderful story, I`m so happy for both of you. You look so comfortable with muslim culture, which I appreciate. Do you speak finnish to your child? I love the way you tell in your blog about Finland but also about good things in Saudi. I hope you and your family all the best!ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 16, 2012 - 3:41 am

    Salam Laylah
    I was wondering if u knew the “undertheabaya” blogger and why she decided to go private. A lot of her readers cannot contact her now and it just seems strange that she failed to mention anything or even a reason and won’t accept anyone trying to read her blog either. I didn’t know anyone else who may know of her so thats why I’m asking you..hope you can shed some light on the matter.
    Thanks
    SanaReplyCancel

  • Omani Princess (not Omani...yet)June 17, 2012 - 11:41 am

    lol, loved it. hope to hear more. May Allah protect and bless you both, ameen.ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 19, 2012 - 1:16 pm

    Loved your story! Thank you for sharing! It's so romantic! Francesca from Ottawa, CanadaReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 23, 2012 - 9:32 pm

    You have a great love story, I love it…!!!..Where do you live now? In Saudi Arabia or Finland ? How many children do you have ? Wish you the best !ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 23, 2012 - 9:33 pm

    You have a great love story !!!ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 23, 2012 - 9:36 pm

    Great love storyReplyCancel

  • Afsal_ AlifJune 24, 2012 - 10:50 am

    felt like reading Romeo & Juliet…..love @ first sight….Seems like the Indian love epic (Laila & Majnu ). I wish I too have such a wonderful & fascinating experience in the near future……!!ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 29, 2012 - 1:10 pm

    That’s so sweet :-) I wish I could meet a Saudi like thisReplyCancel

  • MishaJuly 2, 2012 - 5:44 pm

    Mashallah you are lucky to have met someone so sweet, and its quite a story to tell your kids :-). You certainly ahve a way with words, you painted quite a picture, I love reading your posts, especially the ones where you share personal stories, they really draw you in, and we as readers feel ike that we know though we’ve never met…enjoy your summer holidays in Finland.xxxReplyCancel

  • InetaJuly 16, 2012 - 6:09 pm

    This is an amazing story! Thank you so much for sharing it!ReplyCancel

  • sarahSeptember 18, 2012 - 9:20 pm

    THAT IS SO SWEET.
    I am a hopelessly romantic 19 yearold, and your story made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside.
    I have read your entire blog, and have enjoyed it very very much. Please don’t stop posting. Ignore the haters and the copycats, they are only a drop in the sea, there are so many more people who love and appreciate your work and your awesome sense of humor!
    Hugs from Canada <3333ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousNovember 17, 2012 - 4:23 am

    I LOVE this story! so happy for you. may God bless your lives together, in this world and in Heaven! much love to you from a sister in Ottawa, canada.ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJanuary 29, 2013 - 8:22 am

    Wow, unsure how I came across your blog and ended up reading this. I wish I fell in love with a woman this way. It’s so beautiful. I guess for some dreams as such come true, for others they remain just dreams.. God bless your entire family for always and preserve your love till you reach paradise and forever.ReplyCancel

  • LaylaJanuary 31, 2013 - 12:00 pm

    Thank you all for the kind words and wishes!ReplyCancel

  • Mohammed AhmedFebruary 11, 2013 - 10:17 am

    Mrs. Layla…You are really lucky….May God Bless You…. BothReplyCancel

  • Louise GFebruary 14, 2013 - 11:16 am

    I just discovered your blog, and I love it (so fairy tales are true ?!) … As a major in arabic studies I’m an avid reader of anything regarding the arab world, and your blog looks like on of the best about Saudi Arabia, a country that I find fascinating for different reasons.
    So thank you for your blog that I’ll be following with interest !
    ReplyCancel

  • drtaherJune 13, 2013 - 11:15 pm

    Dear Laylah,

    What a great story! I have heard of so many doctor-nurse stories (my own marriage is one of those) but this story of nurse-patient is unique and so entertaining! May you always stay happy with your dream prince. and may your blog continue to enlighten us in the same way as it has been doing for the past several years.

    = Dr. TaherReplyCancel

  • AnonymousOctober 12, 2013 - 3:27 am

    How I Met My Saudi Prince | Blue AbayaReplyCancel

  • […] Surprisingly there are countless love stories that started in Magic Kingdom..So many of my friends found love here. It’s actually quite ironic that of all places in the world, these couples met in the Saudi Kingdom. I compiled a list of short love stories from Saudi-Arabia. Read our love story here. […]ReplyCancel

  • SwanAugust 30, 2014 - 11:50 am

    I want to see your family pics, can I? where?ReplyCancel

  • AbbeygSeptember 25, 2014 - 12:36 pm

    Sooooo romantic! I just started reading your blog and I cant stop! Im a fan!ReplyCancel

  • Dee MangalinoNovember 3, 2014 - 11:23 am

    Hello,

    This is my second time commenting on your blog. I love your posts. It’s a good-read and I keep learning from you.

    I love your story, something worth to share. Your story can enlighten couples who are currently having the same situation you had before. You maybe like a living proof of a saying “against all odds”

    Please don’t stop blogging.

    More power to you and may Allah bless you and your family. :)ReplyCancel

    • LaylaNovember 4, 2014 - 3:37 pm

      Thank you Dee! I hope our story can give hope to those who feel that the entire world is against them succeeding!ReplyCancel

  • sheikJanuary 11, 2015 - 9:34 pm

    can I get married to Ksa girls there?? I am from India.. will they get married to Indians??ReplyCancel

  • AmanFebruary 12, 2015 - 8:41 am

    Pleas Please, tell us more. What happened next?? dying to hear more….ReplyCancel

  • AmandaFebruary 23, 2015 - 8:07 pm

    I just want to mention I am nebwie to blogging and absolutely savored you’re page. Probably I’m going to bookmark your site . You amazingly have tremendous article content. Bless you for sharing with us your web page.ReplyCancel

  • […] I’m a Finnish medical professional who moved to Saudi-Arabia four years ago for a position in a large government hospital. Originally the plan was to come for one year and then go back home, but you never know where life will lead you! Read what happened to me in this post: How I met my Saudi Prince […]ReplyCancel

  • FirdousJuly 7, 2015 - 4:28 pm

    Congratulation, you got your prince…
    can i get my princess here,ReplyCancel

  • […] in and stood by my choice to marry a Saudi man. She knew our love story from the beginning, when I met my husband, at the very same ward. Waiting for his family to accept his choice of spouse was one of the most […]ReplyCancel

  • MonaDecember 21, 2015 - 12:45 pm

    It was so nice to read something positive for once, especially being a result of a mixed marriage (my father being Saudi) and a western mother.
    Things are never black and white when it comes to humans and relationships. I’m sure you will (or already have) had problems issues and worse with your husband, his family or even yours .. as most marriages do .. only yours will have more facets that most would not be able to relate to.
    May you be happy always.ReplyCancel

  • CHAUDHRYMay 18, 2016 - 11:56 am

    Hi Layla,
    Nice story… I have been living here all my life all my family did. And i am about to leave this Land. Wish you best of luck and hope the world you are living in may stay as it is for ever.
    Because the world i experienced here is totally different then what you described lol. I came her with my family when i was just 1 year old baby. Now i am 30 Years old
    Anyways best of luck once again.ReplyCancel

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