The historic city of Ad’Diriyah, where the first Saudi State was established in 1745 (1158H) has been undergoing a huge restoration project since 2011. I for one have been anxiously awaiting for it to finish because I simply love all this place has to offer. Every time I go to Diriyah, there’s something new and exciting to discover. A shady alleyway with a colorful door at the end, an old watch tower or a small stream, lined with perfect shaded picnic spots..You never know what you will find!

So when I heard the news that earlier this month a part of the restoration project had finally been finished and inaugurated by the King, I was thrilled and could not wait to go check it out.  Apparently the newly opened area is called the Al-Bujairi district the gateway to the historic area of Ad-Diriyah. You can find the directions, map and gps location further below. According to the project management of Diriyah restorations:
“The project is a part of the scheme to develop Diriyah and highlight its cultural value by creating facilities at its main entrance.”

At Turaif District palace ruins

This post is a collaborative Top Ten (5+5) list with blogger Margo Catts, whom I had the pleasure of exploring Diriyah with. Margo happens to be quite an amazing woman and super talented writer. I’m so happy to have met her in person, if only for a short time (she has left on final exit now). We had a blast one morning when the two of us went all “touristy” around Diriyah with our cameras and unfortunate driver. You will begin the virtual sightseeing tour of Riyadh’s very own UNESCO World Heritage site from the below five things to do, and then finish off the virtual Diriyah tour through her blog post here: 10 Things to Do at Historic Diriyah

Ten Things to do in Riyadh

The location of historical Ad’Diriyah is 20 km North West of Riyadh (11 km from city center) on the banks of Wadi Hanifa. The historic area of Ad’Diriyah is divided into two parts by the Wadi Hanifa and additionally into a number of different quarters. The most important ones are:

Turaif Quarter: The main quarter of Ad’Diriyah, where the Al Saud house is situated. The area is located on the South Western mountain, surrounded by a wall overlooking all other quarters.

Ghusaiba Quarter: This was the first Saudi capital up to 1683.

Bujairy Quarter: Located on the Eastern bank of Wadi Hanifa. here you’ll find the mosque, a school, home of Sheikh Mohammed bin Abdul Wahab and the newly opened Diriyah gateway.

GPS coordinates to the roundabout next to the Bujairy plaza: 24.737382 46.575260

Here’s a google earth pic of the area, where you can see the green areas are mostly date farms around Wadi Hanifa and the road which goes down the valley splits the area in two; the Bujairy gateway area and on the opposite side the main historical city area. The actual city is unfortunately still closed from public, although private tours are possible by booking through the Diriyah project management.  The entire Diriyah restoration project is estimated to finish by the end of 2017. In the meanwhile, there’s still plenty of things to see and it’s well worth the visit.historical diriyah map Things to do in Ad ‘Diriyah

1. Explore the new Al Bujairy center.

Enjoy the amazing views to the palace and city ruins, find the old city well, have a picnic by the waterfalls or grab a coffee from one of the cafes. Exploring the Bujairy marketplace and surrounding area feels like stepping back in time, to when this place really was the hub of the city. Lots of shops, cafes, restaurants and businesses are already open and many more will open their doors soon. Most are open after Asr prayers only for the time being. A visitor’s info center, a cultural center and museum will also be opening there in the future.Discover Historical Ad

diriyah salwa palaceHistorical diriyah Turaif city wallAl Bujairy district, Diriyah

diriyah Al Bujairy plazadiriyah marketplace

diriyah museum center

diriyah albujairy gatewaydiriyah old city well2. Door-Gawking and Alley-Wandering.

Ad-Diriyah is a paradise for door enthusiasts like myself. Diriyah is actually one of the places where my inspiration for the ‘Doors of the Magic Kingdom‘ collection began. Margo too, is a self-proclaimed door-addict and we had a lot of fun hunting down new doors and finding the matching door and phone cover! Check out Blue Abaya Designs on Instagram for more door phone covers and other Saudi themed souvenirs and gifts. You can also purchase the iPhone and Samsung covers online

You will see the tribal patterns of the Najd region repeating themselves in the doors, gates, window shutters and panels scattered around the vast historical area. The geometric patterns, bright colors and the Najdi flower are the most easily recognizable patterns. Watch out for the below pictures huge colorful gate, which is actually a part of an isteraha that can be rented for private occasions.

Wander down one of the shady alleys down on the wadi road for another back in time-travel experience. Walking around the quiet neighborhoods is very therapeutic and makes for a refreshing change from the concrete jungles of Riyadh.

Diriyah Colorful painted gates

Saudi doors phone covers

My designs! The Doors of the Magic Kingdom collection phone covers and the matching door in the background.

diriyah farm gate

diriyah wood door

diriyah alleyway

diriyah giant doors3. Visit and see the mosques.

The old, the new and renovated ones. Probably one of the most famous mosques in all of Saudi Arabia is the Sheikh Mohamed bin Abdulwahab mosque, which is located right at the entrance to the historical area next to the Diriyah city walls.  So far the renovation efforts resulted in restoring the mosque where Sheikh Mohammed bin Abdulwahab used to be its imam and deliver sermons. Many other mosques can be found around the newly inaugurated Al-Bujairi plaza area such as the restored Al-Dhwaihrah Mosque and the restoration of the Imam Mohammed bin Saud Mosque which is still under way.

diriyah mosque newdiriyah mosque wudu4. Hunt for antiques, art and souvenirs at the plaza.

Several Saudi gifts and trinkets shops & antique stores, art galleries are already open around the Diriyah marketplace area. Many more to be opened in the near future. The AMA Art venue is already open and there is a small coffee shop at the gallery. Check out the AMA Twitter and Instagram for more info!

 

The AMA Art Gallery in Ad Diriyah

The AMA Art Gallery entrance in Ad Diriyah

Diriyah souk antique shop

5. Eat at the Najd Village restaurant.

This is the third branch of the lovely  Najd Village restaurants which serve traditional Saudi foods. You will be seated on the floor in your own Saudi style majlis or tent, while trying out all the different Najd food specialities at once! Read more about why this restaurant is so amazing here: Al Qarya Najdiya-The Najd Village restaurant.  As an added bonus, the Diriyah branch is overlooking the palace ruins across the wadi, the views are truly incredible. This would be THE place to bring those special Riyadh visitors to. Spend a memorable evening in a one of a kind setting enjoying authentic Saudi food and culture. The restaurant is open daily for both singles and families, 4-10pm
diriyah najd village restaurant door

Now head over to Margo’s post for more pics and a great history lesson of Diriyah!

 

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  • […] this week we’re doing a joint blog—10 Things to Do at Historic Diriyah. You can get five at BlueAbaya.com, and five […]ReplyCancel

  • Susie Johnson KhalilMay 15, 2015 - 8:49 pm

    I want to go! Those doors are really amazing! Next time I am in Riyadh, we must go there!!!ReplyCancel

  • MiinaMay 22, 2015 - 4:32 pm

    Thank you for the visual tour! it looks stunning I wish I can visit!ReplyCancel

    • LaylaMay 23, 2015 - 3:08 pm

      Welcome! Don’t forget to continue the “tour” at Margo’s page :)ReplyCancel

  • mehwishMay 22, 2015 - 6:11 pm

    any contact numbers for the restaurant would be appreciated tyReplyCancel

  • KristineMay 29, 2015 - 8:05 am

    This has been on my Saudi list for a while! Your photos are beautiful, and I’m going to try and get there in the next couple weeks…..before it gets much hotter!!ReplyCancel

    • LaylaMay 29, 2015 - 3:32 pm

      Thank you Kristine for the comment! try to visit in the afternoon when the shop will be open, or then very very early in the morning if just for photo ops :)ReplyCancel

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  • IndrajitAugust 15, 2015 - 2:12 pm

    Is there a visiting time restriction for singles? we are group of four who like to visit on a Friday evening.ReplyCancel

    • LaylaAugust 21, 2015 - 12:04 am

      it’s a public area open to all, so there’s no problem visiting, however Friday evening will be very crowded with families having picnics :)ReplyCancel

  • […] around town though and we headed to check them out. There was a small festival area set up in the historical Diriyah area. We drove around the Wadi Hanifa and saw many families had set up fires and BBQ’s around […]ReplyCancel

  • […] For 2015 as National Day coincides with the start of Hajj, there will be no fireworks this year and the festivals will be delayed until the weekend. A new festival area in Riyadh is the Bujairy area in Historical Diriyah which is a beautiful place to visit on its own. Check it out here: Riyadh’s Historic District Ad’Diriyah […]ReplyCancel

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  • Vicki GoodwinOctober 16, 2015 - 6:20 am

    I want to go. I am living in Riyahd. How do I get there. I am from Arizona, USAReplyCancel

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  • MïSsh FaRiApril 20, 2016 - 11:21 am

    nice placeReplyCancel

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  • LeesaJuly 15, 2016 - 1:35 am

    the doors are lovely and stunning! ive been looking for the najd door here in kingdom but to no avail. any idea where i can i buy it here in Saudi? would love to have it for a coffee/dining table.. love your web, very informative and helpful :) thanks for sharing!!ReplyCancel

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  • Rizwan AliSeptember 12, 2016 - 9:40 am

    I am planing to visit Diriyah today with my family.
    Can anyone please advise if bbq is allowed there?
    Thanks.ReplyCancel

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  • LeahDecember 4, 2016 - 3:23 pm

    Hello,

    You mentioned that private tours are possible if you book with the Diriyah project management. Do you have any contact details for them?

    Thanks!ReplyCancel

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If you live in Saudi Arabia chances are you’ve heard the word ‘wasta’ mentioned before. A wasta is a widely used term for a well connected individual in the Arab world. It refers to using one’s influence or connections to getting things done, cutting through bureaucratic red tape, having exceptions made to the rules, or assisting with employment or education opportunities.

The use of wasta (sometimes referred to as vitamin W) is endemic in the Middle East region and particularly in Saudi Arabia. The word wasta translates roughly to “connections” or “influence” and the Arabic origin means “intermediate”. In short, a wasta is a very influential person with good connections who can get things rolling for you.

Although using wasta is a common practice in the Arab world, the phenomenon of ‘who you know’ can be found everywhere in the world. Networking and social connections are forms of “wasta” in every culture. Some societies view using “wasta” as highly unethical, unfair and showing lack of integrity.

My home country Finland is one of these countries where using ‘wasta’ to achieve something is deeply frowned upon. It’s everyone for their own self, independence is highly valued. It would be considered shameful to land a job based solely on your connection, instead of being qualified for the job. This mentality can partly explain Finland’s rank in the corruption studies, where it’s frequently ranked the #1 least corrupt country in the world.

Coming from this background and upbringing then transitioning to the Saudi ‘world of wasta’ has been difficult. I had to accept the fact that wasta is a way of life in Saudi Arabia and the region in general, and that will not go away any time soon. I learned that I don’t have to accept and approve of the concept, but I can learn to deal with and work with the system the best of my capability.

But why is using these connections more widely culturally accepted and practiced in Saudi Arabia, compared to in the western countries?

The reason is because the roots of  the wasta tradition are in tribal family structures. Saudis (and Arabs in general) have stronger social networks, and they will do anything in their power to serve family and friends. Saudis have very strong family ties and it’s not always about the immediate family, but the entire tribe. Moreover, in some cases it might be considered shameful if a Saudi doesn’t become a wasta for the people of their own tribe, even for relatives they’ve never met before.

Wasta can in some instances be more valuable than money and having wasta definitely makes life in Saudi Arabia much easier. It could be said that the wasta “system” is good only for those who are able to utilize it. For those outside of the system it can feel very frustrating and unfair.

That said, wasta in Saudi Arabia can work on all levels of society, just on different scales. Wasta shouldn’t be confused with the actions that come with it. In Saudi Arabia wasta is no doubt used also for the negative things such as favoring unqualified applicants for a job or giving out scholarships to under performing students. On the other hand having an influential wasta can sometimes even save lives.
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Wasta is often used by Saudis to land a place in university or a job in management or other sought after placements. The sad truth is, the person who used wasta to obtain that position often went past many much more qualified candidates. That’s why many Saudi companies have incompetent and unmotivated staff. Because of  influential wasta backing them up, they won’t have to fear loosing their jobs even if they don’t perform very well.

A wasta is sort of like a genie in a bottle, but better. Instead of three wishes you can get as many as you wish!

Watch the clip of the genie VS wasta to understand the power of WASTA ;)

 

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  • NoorJanuary 13, 2012 - 12:36 am

    Wasta is a funny thing here I did a post about it to awhile ago lol Saudis are something else :pReplyCancel

  • KrisJanuary 12, 2012 - 11:36 pm

    LOL! I loved your wasta link! My husband has access to some good wasta, but has too much honor to use it for his benefit. I love his honor more than his wasta! lol!ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJanuary 13, 2012 - 1:56 am

    Definitely a corruptive tool..ReplyCancel

  • AngelJanuary 13, 2012 - 7:56 am

    LMAO It is unfortunate that this is what people need to get what they want, whether it be marriage, a job, getting land etc it is very sad indeedReplyCancel

  • MAHARUKHJanuary 13, 2012 - 7:27 am

    in love with dis… do drop time on my blog too…ReplyCancel

  • LaylahJanuary 13, 2012 - 3:59 pm

    Kris-you’ve got one honorable man! Would he use it in emergency cases though?ReplyCancel

  • LaylahJanuary 13, 2012 - 4:00 pm

    Noor-yes, they are :DReplyCancel

  • LaylahJanuary 13, 2012 - 4:01 pm

    Maharukh-thanks for stopping by, nice blog you have :)ReplyCancel

  • LaylahJanuary 13, 2012 - 4:03 pm

    Angel-true, it’s sad and it corrupts society, and it’s also unfair to people who try to do things on their own, have someone with wasta come and take that from you.ReplyCancel

  • KristineJanuary 13, 2012 - 8:15 pm

    I sure do Laylah! He does use it to help other people though.ReplyCancel

    • caroJuly 6, 2015 - 7:31 pm

      hi kristine. i dont know if i’m contacting the right person but ppl told me this blog is for foreign women who married with a saudi boy. i’m myself trying to get married with a saudi man but we are facing some difficulties. do u know if it is possible to marry with my saudi fiancé and make it accepted by saudi arabia in some months ? because some ppl told me if my fiancé is under then its not possible for him to marry a foreigner woman as a first wife. do u know about this ? at least do u mind answering me my questions ? i’m rly lost and i dont find that much information on internet. thanks for reading and i hope u can answer and help me !ReplyCancel

  • Abdullah of ArabiaJanuary 17, 2012 - 12:21 am

    I use to think arabia have monopoly over WASTA but in fact recently I found an interesting example of WASTA in the EU.

    In the Wikileaks Wasta said to be wide spread in Greece. Wasta there called (MESON) and this quote from Wikileaks from US embassy in Athens:

    ”Using one’s friends in high places to get something done that otherwise would be impossible — a practice called “meson” — is such a standard practice that it is sometimes difficult for even the most forthright Greek to know where the corruption line exists”

    http://wikileaks.org/cable/2006/02/06ATHENS369.html#

    So Wasta may be had been transmitted to Arabia through the translated Greeks books centuries ago.ReplyCancel

  • LaylahJanuary 18, 2012 - 12:02 pm

    Abdullah of Arabia-thanks for sharing the interesting example, I was not aware of this.ReplyCancel

  • […] than snails in terms of progress of the application. Permissions are given out for those with wasta, money to bribe employees or what it seems just randomly. They have a website with the list of […]ReplyCancel

    • sandraJuly 2, 2015 - 8:08 pm

      do you know the website or where can i find wasta to get the saudi marriage permission success?
      i will appreciate your help
      thanksReplyCancel

  • DeeMay 11, 2015 - 11:15 am

    From Large Scale to Small Scale organizations, there’s always a wasta. It’s quite frustrating that a good and outstanding person gets left behind because of some people who have wasta.

    Even back in the Philippines, wasta’s are mostly the politicians. In the societal view, we call them “Kumpare”ReplyCancel

  • Kati Abi KhaledMay 25, 2015 - 3:21 pm

    Laitoin sinulle Liebster Awards haasteen blogissani. Tama siita huolimatta etta, aavistan blogisi rikkovan helposti parin sadan kavijan rajan. Voit loytaa haasteen taalta: https://wanderlustmanaged.wordpress.com/2015/05/24/liebster-awards-blogihaaste/ReplyCancel

    • LaylaMay 28, 2015 - 4:55 pm

      Kiitos Kati haasteesta!
      Yritan tehda aikaa vastata niihin kysmyksiin pain :)ReplyCancel

  • Loola LoolJuly 7, 2015 - 12:44 am

    I am American and married to a tribal Saudi, although he views wasta as highly unethical.ReplyCancel

  • […] (If you’re not familiar with the term wasta read this post: What is a Wasta)  […]ReplyCancel

Excited to announce Blue Abaya’s recent interview and collaboration with Riyadh’s Radisson Blu Hotel!

 The following is my interview with Radisson Blu hotel in Riyadh which contains some sightseeing & activity tips for newcomers and business travellers to Saudi Arabia’s capital. Read the article based on the interview “An Expat’s Guide to Riyadh by Blue Abaya” on Radisson Blu site here.

 

1) Why did you move to Riyadh and what were your thoughts before going there? How did you prepare?

 

I moved to Riyadh in 2008 to work as a nurse in a large governmental hospital. Prior to arrival in Saudi Arabia I’d been in contact with a few nurses that were already working at the same hospital, and chatting with them was reassuring. Back then there wasn’t much info online and expat blogs were non-existent back then! The recruitment company also gave us material to read through in preparations for the move and dealing with culture shock.

 

2) As an ex-pat, what is your view of Riyadh now compared to perceptions at the outset? How has it changed in recent years?

 

Riyadh has changed so much since then! New buildings, shopping malls and restaurants are literally popping up like mushrooms after the rain. The overall atmosphere and ambience has become more relaxed too. I definitely like the Riyadh of today more in terms of available activities and ways to spend free time.

When I came it was difficult to find women’s gyms and good spas, now there are several top notch places to choose from all over the city.
It’s great to see how much variety there is nowadays in Riyadh when it comes to dining out, there always something new and exciting to try out. Another improvement is local tour companies who have began to cater to the expatriates and foreign visitors by offering city tours and day trips to some very beautiful places just outside of Riyadh.

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3) What – in your mind, are the absolute must-see attractions in Riyadh for business travellers or holidaymakers, and why?

I think it would be a great idea for the travellers to see both the modern city life as well as the traditions and heritage of Saudi Arabia. For example, combining some attractions from the city center such as the Kingdom Tower SkyBridge, Al Faisaliyah tower and the High Tea at Globe restaurant with a sightseeing tour at UNESCO World Heritage site, Historical Diriyah.

Another must see place is the National Museum, this is one of the best Museums in the entire Middle East and visitors get an excellent introduction to the Arabian Peninsula’s history, culture, geography and religion. The surrounding area of the National Museum, King Abdul Aziz Historical center, has enough attractions and activities to keep the visitors busy for the whole day.

A visit to Riyadh would not be complete without a trip out to the desert. Highly recommended would be visiting either the Red Sand dunes or the spectacular ‘Edge of the World‘ which both offer unforgettable experiences for travellers.

 

4) What are your favourite places to eat in Riyadh and why?

That’s a tough question to answer! There’s simply so many great places. it really depends on what you’re looking for, budget-wise, and who you’re eating out with.

For first time visitors to Riyadh, the Najd village restaurant is a MUST visit! The restaurant which is built as a replica of the traditional mud houses typical to the Najd region, serves delicious Saudi cuisine in private majlis (living rooms). It’s great for groups and families.

Another favorite is the Brazilian restaurant ‘Il Terrazo‘ which is located on a terrace overlooking the Faisaliyah tower. it’s a buffet restaurant with great ambience and food, the best thing is to be able to sit outside with such a lovely view.

Friday Brunches are a popular way to spend Friday afternoon’s in Riyadh. Most of the 5 star hotels offer them but my favorites are the Ritz Carlton and Four Seasons spreads.

For breakfast my favorite is Paul’s on Tahlia street. They are open on Fridays and it’s always a pleasure to be able to enjoy breakfast outside, weather permitting of course. Paul’s has their own bakery shop where you can pick up freshly baked breads, mouth watering cakes, pies and their famous croissants.

 

5) To what extent is there a strong sense of community among westerns in Riyadh, and if I’m a traveller, where would you recommend going to meet other people from the same walks of life?

The western communities tend to be restricted a lot by the compounds where they live in and most people socialize within those circles. Because of the cultural restrictions and laws of KSA, it’s not easy to organize large gatherings among expatriates especially mixed gender crowds.

The Diplomatic Quarter is a good place to start. the ‘DQ’ as locals call it is a gated area where the foreign embassies are located and many westerners live there. The area can be accessed by public and especially westerners should have no trouble getting in.
There are quite a few interesting tourist attractions in the DQ. There are over 30 beautifully landscaped lush gardens in the area, a 20km long nature walking trail which encircles the quarters and provides spectacular views to Wadi Hanifa. The architecture in the Diplomatic Quarter is the work of internationally renowned architects from all over the world, making the area even more appealing to visitors.

6) What would be your number one tip for people journeying to Riyadh – if you could only pick one

Come with an open mind and don’t be afraid to explore the city, you won’t regret it!

 

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  • Margaretha Beverloo SmithFebruary 19, 2015 - 4:21 am

    If you did this interview for the Radisson Blu, I am surprised you didn’t mention their own excellent Japanese Shogun, among the restaurants you recommend. That is one of my favorites! Located on one of their top floors. There is also a very good Italian restaurant up there. Just saying…. :)ReplyCancel

    • LaylaFebruary 19, 2015 - 11:11 am

      haha well, like I said it’s a difficult question as there are way too many favorites, depending on what you’re looking for. I don’t have personal experience from the Shogun yet (not a huge fan of Japanese food) so I don’t feel comfortable endorsing it.ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousFebruary 19, 2015 - 8:35 am

    Congratulations ! Always a big fan and keen follower of your blog .ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousFebruary 19, 2015 - 8:37 am

    Would like to know if any tour / travel agency has any scheduled outing to “Edge of the World”ReplyCancel

  • NasserApril 8, 2015 - 11:54 am

    Great blog thanks for the post :)ReplyCancel

  • Vaibhav JainJuly 4, 2015 - 5:10 pm

    Hello Layla,

    I have some questions regarding working and living in Riyadh, could you please provide your Email ID so that I can have a conversation with you.

    Thanks in advanceReplyCancel

  • Yanneth Liliana RojasAugust 11, 2015 - 12:04 am

    Congratulations great blog!ReplyCancel

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  • carlosJanuary 19, 2016 - 3:00 pm

    Hello

    We are some expats working in the DQ and trying to play football on Mondays night. Is anyone willing to join? Not professional level, age 30-50 years.

    Thanks

    Carlos-Ivan Casado (Carlosivan01@hotmail.com)ReplyCancel

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    When clicking “10 Things to do in Riyadh during Spring”, one gets 404 error (page not found),

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The following is my personal love story from the ‘Magic Kingdom’ of Saudi Arabia. How I met my Saudi Prince post was originally published 2012 on the 4th anniversary of the day I randomly met who I thought was (and is) the most handsome and charming man I ever laid eyes on. I had left Finland to work in Saudi Arabia’s capital Riyadh in a large governmental hospital. The plan was to stay a year, maybe two exploring Saudi Arabia and the Middle East. Saudi Arabia as a country and culture had fascinated me quite some time before I’d made my final decision to take on the challenge of relocating there as a single western woman.

Before I left to KSA some of my friends, family and co-workers used to tease me that I will never come back to Finland if I go to Saudi Arabia. They would jokingly say things like “you’re so pretty an oil Sheikh will surely kidnap you and lock you in his palace” “a rich prince will sweep you off your feet, you’ll move to a palace and have 20 kids with him” and so forth.

My reply to them was: “not in a million years! I would never marry a Saudi guy!”.

Lol and now 7 years later, here I am, married to a Saudi guy and we have 2 kids (at times it does seem like there are in fact 20 of them in the house). So I called this post “Saudi Prince” because of the irony of it all.

Disclaimer: My husband is not from the Saudi royal family and no we don’t live in a palace either. 

how I met my saudi prince

..Exactly four years ago my shift at the Saudi hospital had started out like any other night. The allocated patients kept me busy and life seemed to be rolling on as usual. Little did I know that night would change my life for good.

I was thankful to have my friend “Katherine” working on the same shift, it was always a relief having another westerner and English speaking person to talk to during the night shift. We had again agreed to exchange our patients over to each other to enable a break in the middle of the shift.

The moment that would change my life happened very randomly. I was looking for Katherine to ask her which coffee she wanted from Starbuck’s. It was my turn to fetch that night’s caffeine dose and I was on my way down to the coffee shop. I saw her nurse presence light on in one room and decided to pop my head in quickly.

As I peaked in, Katherine was chatting inside with the patient and his relative. The Euro Cup football match was playing loudly on TV. She excitedly motioned me to enter the room further so curiously I did, at the same time asking what her Starbucks order was going to be.

As I glanced at the patient sitting there on his bed, something strange happened. As if time had stopped, like a missing piece had fallen into its place. A handsome young man looked back at me, equally baffled by the moment. For just a few seconds our eyes met and then both of us shyly looked away. I greeted the men with salaams and smiled. They replied back politely, not even looking at me for long but eyeing the floor or the TV. I had learned by now this was a sign of respect, not disrespect as my own culture would tell me. They did not want to make me feel awkward.

I felt a rush of blood going to my head, I was blushing now. Oh how I hated when that happened! I wanted to leave, but then I felt a certain curiosity of this man who I thought was probably one of the most handsome men I had ever laid eyes on. He had a certain sparkle in his eyes that intrigued me and his smile seemed to light up the room. I didn’t want to leave anymore.

I lingered for a moment, asking about the game on TV. The truth is I knew nothing about football, the only thing I cared about was the Italian football team, for other reasons than their skills. He made a joke about the Italians and we all laughed. I told him I was rooting for Italy and more jokes were thrown around. Secretly I was thinking to myself how the patient actually reminded me of an Italian football player with his long black hair brushed up in a ponytail and his smiling dark chocolate eyes.

When I couldn’t think of any more excuses to stay in the room I left to fetch the coffee. I kept thinking about the patient and wanted to ask Katherine about him. I felt drawn to go talk to him more. Later that night my chance came when Katherine and I swapped patients for her break.

Katherine had informed her patients she was leaving for an hour and meanwhile nurse “Layla from Finland” would be taking over. As she was leaving she teased me, “he will call you for sure, something tells me he wants to see you again. When you walked into the room it was like something made a “click” sound! I swear I could hear it!”

About five minutes after she left, the call bell rang. Room 42. It’s him! I was nervous to enter and felt my heart racing. The young man asked if he could get a pain killer. Sure, I said and left to check his files. When I returned he thanked me for the medicine and shyly asked a few questions about me.

I was amazed how it felt so easy to talk to him, his English was perfect and I forgot he was even Saudi. It was as if we already knew each other somehow. It became apparent that we had actually lived in the same area in the U.S as kids. What a coincidence! We talked about Finland and at some point I mentioned how we have so many moose there but I couldn’t remember how to say the plural. What was it, perhaps mooses? He laughed and told me it must be meese! To this day I remember that silly joke and how it made us both laugh so hard.  His smile filled my heart with joy.

Thinking back to that day and where I was in my life I realize how fortunate I was meeting this remarkable man. From that night shift, it has been a long, sometimes extremely hard but rewarding journey to where we are now. We have had to overcome so many obstacles on the way.

No one believed in us in the beginning, except us.

Never in a million years did I think something like this would happen to me when I landed on Saudi soil. When I left Finland for Saudi, people used to tease me, you will find a Saudi Prince there, fall in love and stay forever! I told them, in your dreams only! I guess sometimes fairy tales do come true.

 

 

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  • Mrs GebuJune 14, 2012 - 5:13 am

    It’s so sweet Layla…like a real fairy tale
    Thanks for sharing…ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:29 pm

      Thank you Mrs Gebu!ReplyCancel

  • Mrs GebuJune 14, 2012 - 5:13 am

    It’s so sweet Layla…like a real fairy tale
    Thanks for sharing…ReplyCancel

  • sessiJune 14, 2012 - 5:59 am

    Congrats on your anniversary!ReplyCancel

  • ShimshimJune 14, 2012 - 3:06 am

    Layla, you have such a great way with words. I loved your story and how things developed between you – in fact I am now even more intrigued and want to know more! I can see the parallels in your “struggle” to get to where you are now – I am still “struggling”, my other half is working in Riyadh whilst I am working in Indonesia for now – we have been “together” for 4 years too! Maybe next year we will both be in nearer countries! Keep up the good work and thanks for sharing ;)ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:27 pm

      Shimshim-thank you and I hope you will be able to live in the same country with your other half soon!ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 14, 2012 - 3:21 am

    Hi laylah, such a sweet story :) have always wondered how you met your significant other in saudi, I guess this answered my question :)

    SirehReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:28 pm

      Hi Sireh, thanks and I guess you could say it was totally randomly!ReplyCancel

  • IldiJune 14, 2012 - 6:36 am

    Dear Laylah,
    i love your story! ♥♥♥ Wishing you many many happy years and cute kids more around! Finnish princess found love and got love back so far away from home and a different world! :D Thank you for sharing lovliest moments from your life.

    Kisses!ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:30 pm

      Thanks Ildi! Never would’ve thought to find love in this country!ReplyCancel

  • DianaJune 14, 2012 - 3:47 am

    Please, please write some more. What happened after that? Love your blog!ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:29 pm

      Diana-thank you!Ohhh many many things happened after that. Maybe I really should start writing that book, eh?ReplyCancel

  • Muslimah in reverieJune 14, 2012 - 7:19 am

    Aww mashaAllah what a lovely story :). May Allah swt bless your marriage eternally,and place an everlasting love and mercy between you two always!ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:32 pm

      Aww thanks for the kind wishes!ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 14, 2012 - 7:10 am

    Subhanallah!…what a beautiful story i was imagining the entire seen playing in my mind mashallah. Allah make it a long and happy marriage ameen.
    UmmLujaynReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:31 pm

      Umm Lujayn thank you!ReplyCancel

  • Umm GamarJune 14, 2012 - 7:32 am

    Salammualaykum Laylah,thanis for sharing with us this story :) Subhanallah,we can never know how or when we will meet our soulmate. I met my Saudi Prince while in university here in Malaysia,he was cousins with a friend of mine and we too immediately ‘clicked’. Now we are blessed with a beautiful princess. Although,as you experienced, the journey to our marriage wasn’t easy,but Allah has willed our union ;) Laylah, how does his family accept/treat you as a non Saudi wife,may we know?ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:33 pm

      Umm Gamar-yes we can never know when that day comes! They have come to accept me and treat me very well alhamdulillah.ReplyCancel

  • Lady CarrotJune 14, 2012 - 11:30 am

    Very nice story :) wish you guys much much love and happiness inshallahReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:33 pm

      Thanks Lady Carrot!ReplyCancel

  • Karen KingJune 14, 2012 - 12:15 pm

    Magical! When I interviewed for a writing position with my husband’s company (our week anniversary was yesterday), everyone I met seemed to be impressed with me. I was asked by everyone, have you met David? Turns out my future husband was out that day, home with sick children. So many people mentioned David in that interview, that I knew there was something special about that man. I didn’t meet him until first day on the job, but I felt that same click, too. As we married last week, I remember bowing my head during prayers and thought about your true love. I pray that we are both happy with our princes and our lives forever. God blessed us, and I am so grateful! Thank you for sharing.ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:35 pm

      Karen-thanks for sharing your story too!ReplyCancel

  • NoorJune 14, 2012 - 2:24 pm

    MashAllah Laylah what a beautiful story and I am so glad you found true love. Its so true we never know when it will happen. If you would have told me as a girl I would marry a Saudi and live here I would have never ever believed it would you lol. Oh I get the married a Saudi prince thing all the time to weird lol.ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:41 pm

      Noor, true I would’ve laughed and not believed as well! Life is full of surprises.ReplyCancel

  • DianneJune 14, 2012 - 4:15 pm

    Lovely story of how you guys met each other. Speaking of football, Euro2012 is going on right now, and as I type, I’m watching Italy vs Croatia. lol!ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:46 pm

      I’m still rooting for Italy to my husband’s annoyance ;)ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 14, 2012 - 1:48 pm

    beautiful story..so sweet mashallah!.
    I am intrigued to know like Umm Gamar how his family accepted/treated you into their family..there are many girls going through similar situations and it will be nice to hear from someone who has experience.
    Your husband as you mentioned spent time in america so his family does that make his family a little less conservative to other saudi families who have never travelled and maybe more open to the option of the “dreaded western wife
    LOL?
    UmmLujaynReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:40 pm

      Well I can say that even though they all lived in US they are still very conservative, except for my husband I guess:)ReplyCancel

  • AliceJune 14, 2012 - 5:37 pm

    OMG, it’s love from first sight! You’re so lucky Layla! Or should I rather say: you are so BLESSED! Such love is a luxury, does not happen to everyone. I’m happy for you and hope this love will flourish forever!ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:49 pm

      Alice thank you! I don’t believe in love at first sight but it was definitely something at first sight :)ReplyCancel

  • FarooqJune 14, 2012 - 3:39 pm

    thanks for sharing the story Laylah. Remember a movie’s tag line. “Love will find a way” Well it sure did.

    In the words of the great (just kidding ok!) Justin Bieber, “Never say never” lol.

    My wife said she would never have imagined marrying an Indian but here we are 3 yrs this July and still going strong alhamdulillah.ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:45 pm

      Farooq-congrats to you for the upcoming anniversary!ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 14, 2012 - 4:06 pm

    Great story Layla. How long after meeting your husband did you become Muslim? Or are you Muslim? If not, would you consider it? Sorry for all the questions, but you have such an interesting life it leaves one wanting to hear more and more.ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:46 pm

      Hi it was about a year after.ReplyCancel

  • ربة منزلJune 14, 2012 - 5:37 pm

    Beautiful story. Made me smile all the way to the end. Starbucks must be your favorite coffee place today :)ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:47 pm

      lol Ya I have a favorite there :)ReplyCancel

  • Steve at the PubJune 15, 2012 - 12:25 am

    Lovely story, very well written. (I’ll take issue with the Italian football team though! I prefer my footballers to have machisimo.)ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:50 pm

      Steve-oh come one! Italians are a “league” of their won hahaReplyCancel

    • Ms. JMarch 26, 2015 - 3:26 am

      Ms. Layla

      Your story inspired me so much! I’m an expat nurse too here in ksa but not like you i think my love story in kinda complicated. I want to share it with you and ask some advice if you dont mind. I really need it from a person that can understand my situation.
      Hoping for your response

      Sincerely Yours,
      Ms.JReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 14, 2012 - 9:56 pm

    oh, thank you, such a lovely story…. please post part 2!ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:49 pm

      there would be probably up to part 200 if I continued the story :)ReplyCancel

  • SoileJune 15, 2012 - 9:15 am

    Great story, you are soooooo lucky!ReplyCancel

    • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:51 pm

      Thanks Soile! You never know who you will meet here ;)ReplyCancel

  • Madame KissankulmaJune 15, 2012 - 11:03 pm

    Wonderful story, I`m so happy for both of you. You look so comfortable with muslim culture, which I appreciate. Do you speak finnish to your child? I love the way you tell in your blog about Finland but also about good things in Saudi. I hope you and your family all the best!ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 16, 2012 - 3:41 am

    Salam Laylah
    I was wondering if u knew the “undertheabaya” blogger and why she decided to go private. A lot of her readers cannot contact her now and it just seems strange that she failed to mention anything or even a reason and won’t accept anyone trying to read her blog either. I didn’t know anyone else who may know of her so thats why I’m asking you..hope you can shed some light on the matter.
    Thanks
    SanaReplyCancel

  • Omani Princess (not Omani...yet)June 17, 2012 - 11:41 am

    lol, loved it. hope to hear more. May Allah protect and bless you both, ameen.ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 19, 2012 - 1:16 pm

    Loved your story! Thank you for sharing! It's so romantic! Francesca from Ottawa, CanadaReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 23, 2012 - 9:32 pm

    You have a great love story, I love it…!!!..Where do you live now? In Saudi Arabia or Finland ? How many children do you have ? Wish you the best !ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 23, 2012 - 9:33 pm

    You have a great love story !!!ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 23, 2012 - 9:36 pm

    Great love storyReplyCancel

  • Afsal_ AlifJune 24, 2012 - 10:50 am

    felt like reading Romeo & Juliet…..love @ first sight….Seems like the Indian love epic (Laila & Majnu ). I wish I too have such a wonderful & fascinating experience in the near future……!!ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJune 29, 2012 - 1:10 pm

    That’s so sweet :-) I wish I could meet a Saudi like thisReplyCancel

  • MishaJuly 2, 2012 - 5:44 pm

    Mashallah you are lucky to have met someone so sweet, and its quite a story to tell your kids :-). You certainly ahve a way with words, you painted quite a picture, I love reading your posts, especially the ones where you share personal stories, they really draw you in, and we as readers feel ike that we know though we’ve never met…enjoy your summer holidays in Finland.xxxReplyCancel

  • InetaJuly 16, 2012 - 6:09 pm

    This is an amazing story! Thank you so much for sharing it!ReplyCancel

  • sarahSeptember 18, 2012 - 9:20 pm

    THAT IS SO SWEET.
    I am a hopelessly romantic 19 yearold, and your story made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside.
    I have read your entire blog, and have enjoyed it very very much. Please don’t stop posting. Ignore the haters and the copycats, they are only a drop in the sea, there are so many more people who love and appreciate your work and your awesome sense of humor!
    Hugs from Canada <3333ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousNovember 17, 2012 - 4:23 am

    I LOVE this story! so happy for you. may God bless your lives together, in this world and in Heaven! much love to you from a sister in Ottawa, canada.ReplyCancel

  • AnonymousJanuary 29, 2013 - 8:22 am

    Wow, unsure how I came across your blog and ended up reading this. I wish I fell in love with a woman this way. It’s so beautiful. I guess for some dreams as such come true, for others they remain just dreams.. God bless your entire family for always and preserve your love till you reach paradise and forever.ReplyCancel

  • LaylaJanuary 31, 2013 - 12:00 pm

    Thank you all for the kind words and wishes!ReplyCancel

  • Mohammed AhmedFebruary 11, 2013 - 10:17 am

    Mrs. Layla…You are really lucky….May God Bless You…. BothReplyCancel

  • drtaherJune 13, 2013 - 11:15 pm

    Dear Laylah,

    What a great story! I have heard of so many doctor-nurse stories (my own marriage is one of those) but this story of nurse-patient is unique and so entertaining! May you always stay happy with your dream prince. and may your blog continue to enlighten us in the same way as it has been doing for the past several years.

    = Dr. TaherReplyCancel

  • AnonymousOctober 12, 2013 - 3:27 am

    How I Met My Saudi Prince | Blue AbayaReplyCancel

  • […] Surprisingly there are countless love stories that started in Magic Kingdom..So many of my friends found love here. It’s actually quite ironic that of all places in the world, these couples met in the Saudi Kingdom. I compiled a list of short love stories from Saudi-Arabia. Read our love story here. […]ReplyCancel

  • Noelle RCMay 6, 2014 - 10:44 pm

    Love it!!!ReplyCancel

  • SwanAugust 30, 2014 - 11:50 am

    I want to see your family pics, can I? where?ReplyCancel

  • AbbeygSeptember 25, 2014 - 12:36 pm

    Sooooo romantic! I just started reading your blog and I cant stop! Im a fan!ReplyCancel

  • Dee MangalinoNovember 3, 2014 - 11:23 am

    Hello,

    This is my second time commenting on your blog. I love your posts. It’s a good-read and I keep learning from you.

    I love your story, something worth to share. Your story can enlighten couples who are currently having the same situation you had before. You maybe like a living proof of a saying “against all odds”

    Please don’t stop blogging.

    More power to you and may Allah bless you and your family. :)ReplyCancel

    • LaylaNovember 4, 2014 - 3:37 pm

      Thank you Dee! I hope our story can give hope to those who feel that the entire world is against them succeeding!ReplyCancel

  • sheikJanuary 11, 2015 - 9:34 pm

    can I get married to Ksa girls there?? I am from India.. will they get married to Indians??ReplyCancel

  • AmanFebruary 12, 2015 - 8:41 am

    Pleas Please, tell us more. What happened next?? dying to hear more….ReplyCancel

  • Deirdre ThompsonMarch 10, 2015 - 10:05 am

    l would love to visit Dubai one day , happy for you layla and good on youm !ReplyCancel

  • FirdousJuly 7, 2015 - 4:28 pm

    Congratulation, you got your prince…
    can i get my princess here,ReplyCancel

  • […] in and stood by my choice to marry a Saudi man. She knew our love story from the beginning, when I met my husband, at the very same ward. Waiting for his family to accept his choice of spouse was one of the most […]ReplyCancel

  • MonaDecember 21, 2015 - 12:45 pm

    It was so nice to read something positive for once, especially being a result of a mixed marriage (my father being Saudi) and a western mother.
    Things are never black and white when it comes to humans and relationships. I’m sure you will (or already have) had problems issues and worse with your husband, his family or even yours .. as most marriages do .. only yours will have more facets that most would not be able to relate to.
    May you be happy always.ReplyCancel

  • CHAUDHRYMay 18, 2016 - 11:56 am

    Hi Layla,
    Nice story… I have been living here all my life all my family did. And i am about to leave this Land. Wish you best of luck and hope the world you are living in may stay as it is for ever.
    Because the world i experienced here is totally different then what you described lol. I came her with my family when i was just 1 year old baby. Now i am 30 Years old
    Anyways best of luck once again.ReplyCancel

  • Maryann ShubailyJune 19, 2016 - 2:10 am

    I have seen your posts from a long time back with our dear friend, Carol. Oh how
    I miss chatting with her about our lives here in KSA. It was so fun to read your story
    About how you met your ‘Prince’ as well. Isn’t life exciting here? Ha ha. I’m so happy for
    You. I understand that look and feeling….but I never thought I’d actually marry my husband
    When we met. I did go home and told my mother I wanted to marry someone just like him,
    ThoughReplyCancel

  • AnetaAugust 9, 2018 - 12:02 am

    such a great story
    BTW didn’t know you are medical as well!ReplyCancel

  • LaylahJune 15, 2012 - 6:30 pm

    Thanks Star Vogue!ReplyCancel

Your Complete Guide to Al Janadriyah Cultural Heritage Festival in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia brought to you by Blue Abaya.

An Updated guide to visit the National festival of Heritage and culture can be found here: Janadriyah 2016 Festival Guide. 

Find all you need to know about the Janadriya festival including the dates and visiting hours for 2015, family and single days, maps, location, directions, programs, pavilion guides, tips for parents, activities for everyone and much more! Dates planned for the Janadriyah festival in 2015 are: February 4th- February 22nd 2015.

What is the Janadriyah (also spelled Jenedriyeh, Jenedriya, Janadria, Al-Jenadriyah, Arabic: مهرجان الجنادرية) Heritage Festival?

An annually held, heritage and folk festival of Saudi-Arabia. Janadriya will be held this year for the 30th time in the Janadriyah village on the outskirts of Riyadh. The Janadriyah village was built specifically to host this festival. This is the largest festival of its kind in the Gulf, attracting millions of visitors from all over the region each year (in 2014 over 3 million people visited the festival during the course of three weeks).janadriyah guide s

A large festival area, which covers 1.5 sq km is divided into sections according to the different Provinces of Saudi Arabia such as Jizan (Gazan), Asir, Riyadh, Hail, Tabuk, Eastern Province, Makkah, Medinah, Taif, Al Baha, Qassim, and Najran. Each Province area will have buildings which are replicas of the architectural style typical to said region. Each year there’s a visiting country at the festival and in 2015 it will be Germany. Germany will have their own cultural pavilion at Janadriyah, all the info and their program can be found here: http://germanyinksa.com/

“The annual Jenadriyah Heritage and Cultural Festival, organized by the National Guard under the command of the Crown Prince, plays a crucial role in preserving the Kingdom’s national heritage. The festival begins with a traditional camel race and is intended to embrace all aspects of Saudi Arabian traditions and culture.” Official Janadriyah site (Arabic): http://www.janadria.org.sa

“The National Festival for Heritage and Culture at Al-Janadriyah is the most important national occasion expressing the ancient Saudi history and the perception of the booming present to paint a creative canvas. From here you can smell the perfume of originality which emphasizes our Arab identity and enhances our national heritage.” Saudi Tourism page

 

Janadriyah festival riyadh

Experience, discover and explore Saudi Arabia’s biggest Cultural Folk and Heritage Festival, Janadriyah.

 

Where is Janadriyah Village? What is the location exactly, driving directions, map of area, GPS co-ordinates?

GPS co-ordinates:24.958592,46.794462

Location Google Mapshttp://goo.gl/maps/184ur

The Janadriyah Village is located on Janadriyah Rd, opposite the Salwa Garden Village. Further along the same road are the King Abdul Aziz Race track and Thumamah National Park sand dunes. Three roads from Riyadh lead to Janadriyah. Check the Google map to see which one is closest to you and for driving directions. It takes about 30- 45 minutes from Riyadh city center to reach Janadriyah depending on the traffic.

Attached Google maps location of the festival area.

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When can I visit? Can I go with my husband/family/single male friends? 2015 dates and timings as follows: The festival “operetta” grand opening is for males only and the consecutive weekend is also male only. in 2015 Singles (male only days) are February 4th- 8th.

Family days at Janadriyah begin 9th until 22nd February. Gates open 3:30 pm, close 12 midnight on weekdays, 2 am on weekends.

Family days are when single women (on their own or with their family members) and married men with their families are allowed to enter.

Note that sometimes single males might be able to enter with a large group of expat families (eg tour group) by sticking with the group strictly at all times. The religious police are on the look-out for single males and all single males will be escorted out of the festival if found unaccompanied by family members. The Haia are very strict in particular with the Saudi youth, however expats might get some leeway in this matter.

What can I do at Janadriyah festival? There are so many places to see and things to do that one whole day is not enough to see everything. Upon entering the festival area, make sure you grab the map of the area from the info stands, they have English maps too and will happily advise you with any questions.

You can watch camel races, or ride a camel, see falcons and Arabian horses, see what the interiors of houses of different areas in Saudi Arabia look like. You can try traditional foods, watch sword dancing, learn about the history of Saudi Arabia, visit small museums, art exhibitions and much much more. For the Top Ten Recommended Activities at Janadriyah click here.

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Is it safe? Can I go with my small children? Can I go alone as single female? In short, yes. The same precautions, which you would take at any larger event apply. The biggest safety risk would be to lose your child in the vast and crowded area. There are some measures parents can take to prevent this. Read Blue Abaya’s Guide “Janadriyah Festival with Children” to find out more.

The Saudi National Guard and CPVPV members (Hai’a, religious police) are present in all areas of the festival ensuring the safety of the visitors.

How do I get there? Where do I park? Keep in mind that millions of people visit this festival every year and the crowds can get overwhelming in the evenings after Ishaa prayer and the parking lot becomes chaotic. It might be very hard to find the way back to your car or even to get out of the parking area. There are taxis waiting at the gates of the festival, so if you arrived with taxi, you can get a ‘white taxi’ back to the city without prior reservation. For those arriving with drivers, the easiest way to exit the area during the worst rush hour would be to have the driver wait at the side of the main road, directly opposite the gate and just walk there. If you wait at the gate for your driver to arrive, it could take up to an hour to enter and exit the parking area!

Why should I visit the festival? Find out the answer here! 

Have fun and enjoy the experience!

 

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Pictured famous Expat blogger ‘Susie of Arabia’ and one of Saudi Arabia’s top female photographers, Samia El Moslimany, having fun at the Janadriya festival in 2014.

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  • KhadraFebruary 19, 2014 - 10:02 pm

    Hi Layla, Is there a schedule for the different shows? I.e the region dances, camel races etcReplyCancel

  • KhadraFebruary 19, 2014 - 10:05 pm

    Ps: Congrats on your nomination xxReplyCancel

    • LaylaFebruary 20, 2014 - 1:20 am

      thank you Khadra! I’m not aware of any schedules but the camel races are only on the first few days. The regional dances begin around 5 in each area, and they continue with short breaks in between ALL NIGHT ;) Have fun! I especially recommend the Al Baha region dances.ReplyCancel

  • caspar smeetsFebruary 21, 2014 - 12:12 pm

    It is nice to read a positive approach about the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia. I am a bit skeptical however of entering the realm of slamming down the grumpy Expat, however much I agree with the fact that if one does hate the life, it is better to leave. At the same time one is not always immediately in the position of doing so.
    Anyway, what I miss on your website is an “about us” section, but perhaps I have overlooked it.
    ThanksReplyCancel

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  • Irina MarchenkoJanuary 27, 2015 - 11:25 am

    Dear Layla,
    Thank you very much for the detailed information in your recent post, I will certainly attend Janadriyah Cultural Festival 2015, I’m sure that it is worth to be seen. It is always very interesting to feel the atmosphere of the country, to get acquaintance with its culture. To show my gratitude and appreciation, I would like to share a very good free app with you. It is called Carde and it is at http://www.carde-app.com. I’ve discovered recently. All image content of top social networks is there, I think that it can be useful in communication with your followers. I will be looking forward to your feedback. I will be waiting impatiently for your new posts!ReplyCancel

  • eric jeffJanuary 27, 2015 - 9:59 pm

    Hello! I am confuse. Is jandriyah festival 2015 cancel because king abdullah died? I just want to know if cancel or not cancel. Thank you very much. Please reply. Thank you for your help.ReplyCancel

  • eric jeffJanuary 27, 2015 - 10:04 pm

    Hello. I am little confuse. Is janadriyah festival 2015 cancel because king abdullah died? Is it cancel or not cancel. Please help me. Please reply. Thank you very much!ReplyCancel

    • LaylaJanuary 27, 2015 - 11:18 pm

      it’s cancelled for 2015, because it would be too soon to celebrate after the King passed away.ReplyCancel

      • eric jeffJanuary 30, 2015 - 8:38 pm

        Thank you very much for your reply Layla. This website is the best and helps me a lot. More power to all of you!ReplyCancel

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  • Bushra Qamar AhmedFebruary 1, 2015 - 12:45 pm

    ahhh too bad its canceled :'(ReplyCancel

    • LaylaFebruary 1, 2015 - 4:54 pm

      yes it’s unfortunate they cancelled it altogether, no just postponed like they did the year Prince Sultan passed away.ReplyCancel

  • Ruhi KılıçFebruary 5, 2015 - 2:07 pm

    I will certainly attend the J. Cultural Fest-2015ReplyCancel

  • […] for all expats at least once! Starting 8th Feb running through 24th Feb 2012. Check more info about timings and dates here and for pics from 2011 […]ReplyCancel

  • […] first encounter with the Saudi religious police aka muttawa or Hai’a, was at the Janadriyah heritage festival held once a year on the outskirts of Riyadh. It’s a huge exhibition area that displays saudi […]ReplyCancel

  • LauraJanuary 18, 2016 - 10:37 pm

    Hi, thanks for all the useful tips. Do you have any info about the 2016 edition? Dates/Locations/Etc?
    Thanks in advance!
    LauraReplyCancel

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  • AfiaFebruary 18, 2016 - 6:42 pm

    We visited janadriya festival 2016. Its simply owesome. I was not expecting that much fum and so many activities me and my kids love it.Actually we want to visit it twice because it was so big to cover in one day.ReplyCancel

185 things to do in Saudi Arabia! All the best Saudi Arabia ‘Top Ten’ travel posts that have been published on Blue Abaya are now easily accessible at your fingertips all in one place. Find travel inspiration and things to do in Saudi Arabia from Riyadh and beyond.

In this compilation of guides and listicles you will find…

Things to do- lists from Riyadh, Jeddah, Abha and beyond. Outdoor activity guides, travel tips, hidden gems, sightseeing locations and desert hiking treks.

That’s a total of 185+ Things to do in Saudi Arabia!

Click on each post title to open the post and read the article!

185 Things to do in KSA

 

TEN AMAZING PLACES TO VISIT IN SAUDI-ARABIA

“1. Madain Saleh, 2. Najran, 3. Farasan Islands, 4. Empty Quarter, 5. Al Soudah, 6. Wahba Crater, 7. Al Lith, 8. Edge of the World, 9. Taif, 10. Qassim”

10 amazing places to visit in saudi arabia

15 THINGS TO DO IN RIYADH IN THE WINTER

15 outdoor activities that are perfect for the pleasant winter weather.

TOP TEN THINGS TO DO DURING EID AL FITR HOLIDAYS IN RIYADH

“Most companies and businesses in Riyadh will be closed for the first three days of the Eid celebrations. What is there to do in Riyadh during Eid? Every year the Riyadh Municipality organizes various celebrations and festivals all around the city.”

TEN BEAUTIFUL PLACES TO DISCOVER IN THE DESERT 

“it’s not just a pile of sand and rocks.”

RIYADH’S TOP TEN EATS WITH KIDS

“The best restaurants and bakeries in Riyadh that families with small children will enjoy.”

restaurant reviews

TOP 13 THINGS TO DO IN RIYADH’S DIPLOMATIC QUARTER 

“One of my personal favorite areas in Riyadh is the Diplomatic Quarter, often referred to as “the DQ”.”

diplomaticriyadh

TEN POOLS IN RIYADH TO COOL OFF IN THIS SUMMER!

“There’s no doubt that summer is here to stay. It’s getting hotter by the day with recorded temperatures reaching almost 50C! Lots of women are looking for swimming pools in Riyadh that could be used by females only.”

top best swimming pools riyadh

TOP TEN RESTAURANTS IN THE EASTERN PROVINCE (DAMMAM, AL KHOBAR, JUBAIL)

“All types of restaurants were included in the survey and each person was allowed to vote for their top three favorite restaurants. The criteria for picking the top restaurants were: Quality and taste of food, service, ambiance, and price-quality ratio.”

EP Foodies

TOP TEN THINGS TO DO IN AND AROUND ABHA

“At an elevation of 2200m above the Red Sea level, the mountainous Abha region enjoys pleasant weather year round. Asir region has plenty of attractions to do and it might be a challenge to decide between all of the fun and interesting activities.”

abha top ten

TOP TEN THINGS TO DO AT JANADRIYAH FESTIVAL

“The annually held Cultural Heritage festival Janadriyah, is undeniably one of the most important cultural events of the year and a must visit for all expats in the Kingdom of Saudi-Arabia.”

experience janadriyah

THE TOP 14 MOST ROMANTIC RESTAURANTS IN RIYADH

“Riyadh and Romance don’t exactly go hand in hand do they? Despite its boring reputation, Riyadh has some surprisingly romantic restaurants where lovers can find a nice quiet spot.”

romatic restaurants 300

SAUDI-ROAD TRIP TOP TEN

“We took my mother along on a week long road trip adventure around Saudi-Arabia. Our journey was awesome, surprising and eventful.”

Saudi road trip200

 15 THINGS TO DO IN RIYADH IN THE SUMMER

“Many expats and locals find themselves “stuck” in Saudi for the summer with nothing to do, fearing death caused by boredom. Not everyone is lucky enough to escape the Saudi heat. Here are 15 things you can do in Riyadh to beat the heat!”

15things to do in riyadh

TEN THINGS TO DO IN AL-BALAD HISTORICAL DISTRICT, JEDDAH

“I will never become bored of wandering in the narrow alleyways, discovering brightly colored Mashrabiat and rawashaan, the specs of color, the friendly people, the smells and sounds of Balad. Al Balad will literally tickle all your senses. Here are ten reasons why you should not miss a visit to this unique heritage site!”

10 things to do balad jedda

10 THINGS TO DO IN RIYADH DURING SPRING

“Have you ever tried golfing in the desert? Ever been to the beautiful desert to see the stunning Red Sand dunes, which are now in full bloom after the winter rains? How about a leisurely walk or a sweat inducing run in the desert with fellow expats? Spring is the best time to head out for some hiking and camping trips just outside Riyadh.”

riyadh spring activity

11 WAYS TO CURE THE DREADED SANDPIT BOREDOM

” Life in Saudi Arabia is of course different to what most are used to back home, but it’s only going to be boring if you choose to make it so! Staying active and connecting with the local culture will always help with dealing with culture shock and getting settled in the land of the sand better.”

I LOVE RIYADH KINGDOM

TEN THINGS TO DO IN HISTORICAL DIRIYAH 

“Riyadh’s Historic district and UNESCO World heritage site has finished the first phase of the huge restoration project. It will become the world’s largest open air museum when finalized”

diriyah top ten things to do

TOP TEN RESTAURANTS IN RIYADH

“Here are my top ten restaurants in Riyadh. There are so many good restaurants it’s not easy to pick only ten!”

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  • Bernie PoundDecember 6, 2014 - 5:04 pm

    Very nice. Can you email this to me please?ReplyCancel

    • LaylaDecember 6, 2014 - 5:09 pm

      Thank you Bernie, you can get this and more awesome posts directly to your inbox by subscribing to Blue Abaya by email. just enter your email on the subscription form on the top of the sidebar :)ReplyCancel

  • missyDecember 9, 2014 - 6:42 pm

    Thank you for sharing! This is a lot to add on my bucket list :PReplyCancel

    • LaylaDecember 9, 2014 - 8:15 pm

      You’re welcome! Well, we gotta start somewhere ;)ReplyCancel

  • MattDecember 15, 2014 - 7:32 pm

    Thanks! Shared it with all my KSA friends.ReplyCancel

  • AymenJanuary 16, 2015 - 5:05 pm

    That’s 135 for my to do list.ReplyCancel

The Blue Abaya blog has reached over 3 MILLION views and it’s time to say a huge big heartfelt THANK YOU for all the readers and fans of Blue Abaya for the continuous support and encouragement since this blog started in 2010.

To celebrate this milestone and share some love, we’ve collected some of the lovely comments Blue Abaya readers have left here on the blog over the past 4 years.  More testimonials can be found here: Blue Abaya Hall of Fame: Blog Fan Mail

Words cannot describe how grateful I feel and how humbling it has been to read through all these comments again, now that they’re all in one place it feels more profound…this has been the best reward for blogging so far and makes all the hard work worthwhile. I must come back to this post every time I feel I need a kick in the butt or when I have those days that I feel nobody reads my blog and I need a little reminder, that yes, there are people who read and appreciate what I do. Which is really amazing and something I appreciate immensely. -Laura (Laylah)

Blue Abaya Testimonials & Blog Love est. 2010:

“When I moved to Riyadh from the US two years ago I was in culture shock and very depressed to be in such a foreign and strange place. Blue abayas blogposts helped me cope with the craziness and look at the negativity of this country from a different light. Layla put humour and sarcasm in such bizarre situations that made me only laugh and actually look fwd to hear about more experiences … Everyday is a new experience in Ksa…Love you Layla!”

 

“If only, every culture around the world would have a Laylah.”

 

“Blue Abaya gives a wonderful insight into Saudi Arabian culture and isn’t afraid of being critical. It is always a pleasure to visit her blog because there is always something new and interesting to discover.”

 

“…Of all the ramblings I just wanted to say I found your site & musings the most informative & realistic.And by far the most tongue-in-cheek humourous!
I am under no illussions now about what I am coming to, yet at the same time filled with a sense of positivity to see, experience & sample as much as I can with what there is on offer. I am even looking forward to the move with excited trepidation, though I know it is going to be a challenge of note.
I just wanted you to know that all your ramblings are very appreciated & that a simple picture of your great dane touched my heart (we have had 6 over the years) as did a simple little patch of wildflowers in the desert.And allthough you have highlighted the hard truth realism, it’s the human factor that embodies your spirit of positivity, that shines through and triumphs any of the adversity……
Thank you for shining your little light!…”

 

“Great article! you should be in Shura Council instead of those dysfunctional members who hardly address the issue of poverty and inequality.”

 

“you are the best example to follow and learn from .. Don’t give up. You bring up a high ratios of people via your style of writing, the correct beautiful words & eloquence, thank you for everything …I am sure that you will be rewarded for changing this world to better..”

 

“I spent more than a year in Riyadh struggling with the culture shock before I accidentally found Blue Abaya’s blog. It made me understand, be more aware, and laugh. It opened my eyes to see the positives in KSA and see the humor in the negatives. I look forward to each blog; it’s a family event for us to read the new blog together, laugh together, then discuss it. THANK YOU Layla!”

 

“Please never stop writing! Reading your stories is the last thing I do before I go to bed. I feel I already know you. You are an inspiration to all of us by your positive attitude and your humour. God bless you and your family :). Xoxox from Ottawa”

 

“I am Saudi and I was looking expats experience about Janadriah and found your blog! I’ve never been to this blog before, and surprisingly, I finally find someone who talks about the KSA with true and fair stories.
I am really proud of you and people like you..!”

“…From your new follower.. please dont stop what you do cause unknowingly you are helping and changing people’s lives.. you are a blessing and continue to be one. May God bless you always. In your cause may Allah bless you.”

 

“That is the most sweet letter I’ve read. I’m so touched and really overwhelmed.
People like you, Princess Laylah, are always a delight to have around.
Hope you stay in Saudi forever. We need people like you.
I hope I can talk on behalf of all the patients, if not all Saudis, and say THANK YOU for you to come to the desert land and help in healing and make it better for those who needed it the most. For your merciful work and efforts and for your gratitude.
We feel humble by your kindness.
Wish you all the best and happiness in your life.””Excellent photographes once again ms Layla! You are a spokesperson for the Saudi Kingdom.”

 

“Her blog opened new worlds and countries(Finnland, Saudi Arabia) to me, and reading differences and similarity brought me to be a person to adapt and accept differences in my own life as well. I love the way she expresses her experiences.”

 

“People like me would never find out about these place if not visiting your site.Thank you and keep sharing!”

 

“you have encouraged me to start my own blog! you are a force to be reckoned with laylah.. you had me laughing so loud.  thanks, just the pick-me-up i needed ”

 

“I love your blog, it makes me laugh at work when all I want to do is take cover. I find it witty, intelligent and extremely resourceful. I must admit that I often come here on a daily basis to check if there is something new. My advice to you is to keep writing as you are clearly blessed to be able to write so well. It would be haram if you were to stop.
Lotsa love and encouragement always,”

 

“You should write a book! seriously i would buy it asap you writing skills are intriguing and I’m sure you have so many stories to tell. Ever thought about it? You’ll give Jean Sasoon and her false stories a run for her money.”

 

“Mashallah sis……I’m so HAPPY I discovered your most interesting blog. It was very informative and I feel so refreshed after reading your stories and checking out your most AMAZING pictures!……May Allah bless you and us all for all our good deeds in this life and Inshallah grant us the hereafter!  Jazak Allah Khair!”

 

“Better than National Geographic : ))) thanks for sharing”

 

“Thanks for your wonderful blog. I lived in the kingdom for 9 years 77-86 and was a journalist for Arab News. Your blog helps me keep up with the changes–important for me as I frequently speak on the kingdom”

 

“Inspiring work , Realizing there is more things beyond camel ,desert and palm tree ”

 

“Hi, I am a regular reader of your blog from India and reading your blog makes me really feel that I have travelled to Saudi and I am experiencing all the beautiful things you decribe. I love your humour and satire and I have spent many a enjoyable hour browsing through your site. This is the first time I am commenting though .Keep up the good work and God bless your family.”

 

“Your blogs are really informative.. Being busy in work left my exploration hobby aside, but thanks to your articles we get to know so many things about the kingdom..”

 

“I’ve noticed that you surely use a LOT of time and work hard to create your posts. Your blog is so informative and rich, showing KSA from a different and thus interesting perspective. And the photos make it feel just like a free holiday in a country where I’ve never visited.”

 

“How beautiful! Your pictures are so vivid Layla! I am new to this blog but loving it already!”

 

“I’m few months in Arabia and your lovely blog is helping me to survive here!! thanks for all your suggestions!! I have a 3 years old daughter and it’s hard to keep her busy, but I,m trying everything you suggested!!!thank for sharing with us your experience!! hope to meet you!”

 

“Salam alaykum
I discovered your blog few days ago while searching for swimming pools for women in Riyadh. You really have a nice blog and really informative. I learned a lot of things about Riyadh and Saudi people (I am not saudi, I am from Algeria liviving in Riyadh). Please keep blogging.
Thanks”

 

“Love your blog and thank you for providing the information about life in KSA.”

 

“Hi! I read your blogs and I wanted to say thank you and keep writing! Your photos are always so beautiful.”

 

“Your blog is very unique, I love seeing the personal pictures you post as well as your captions…
…I’m living the Saudi life vicariously through your blog.”

 

“I read your blog and I love it!! You give me hope for my life in the future….

…The thing I love best about your blog is the pictures. Lets face it; a pictures worth a thousand words. I feel like even if I never go to Saudi I’ll have seen it all.”

 

“…I love that your blog also has a personal touch- you share some of your experience in KSA, which can be very useful to people in similar situations. Your blog shows that working and living in KSA is not scary but can be even enjoyable.”

 

“…I love this blog so much. I live in Scotland and it seems whenever I’m really cold and miserable, you’ve posted something awesome with beautiful pictures.”

 

“…as i said before,you make saudi look like a charming place to be,and i really like how positive your blog portrait saudi and brings the good in a time where bad is what all being said about it….”

 

“Thank you very much for your informative blog. I spent a good part of the afternoon today, reading and learning interesting tidbits about life in Saudi…”

 

“assalamu alaikum sister mine is to say jaza killahu khair, for making the world see one of the authenticity of Islam’s prophet Muhammad (s.a.w) sayings may Allah make it easy for all of us.”

 

“Seriously, I thought my life ended after I moved to Riyadh this Summer, but after discovering your blog today, I realised there is so much fun to be discovered! So thanks so much for that (: Also, after a bit of reading, I can safely assure you that you’re aMazING! Eeek, I love what you write! Your positive tone, unwavering Eemaan, and refreshing outlook on life has presented Saudi to me in a whole new perspective.”

 

“Thank you for your courage, commitment, and honesty”

 

“Hi !
I just wanted to thank you for your website, I love it … I’m a french student in arabic language, I lived in different arab countries but I’ve been dreaming of visiting/living in the Kingdom for a long time now, and I hope that one day I might be able to (though I’m a convert for now I can’t, because I don’t have a mahram). Meanwhile your blog helps me a lot to learn and discover things about this country (other than the usual bad stuff your hear in the media), so thank you again !
Best regards”

 

“This blogs makes you believe that ‘LIFE’ do exists in KSA :)”

 

“The best and the most interesting blog I have read so far. Talented writing about important topics in KSA and the writer has great sense of humor as well. Also the photos of the blog are amazing.”

 

“By far the best Saudi expat blog! Blue Abaya gives true insight on the pleasures and hardships of being an expatriate (woman) in Saudi Arabia, all the while maintaining a great sense of humor. This blog has had great impact on me personally, as well. I discovered it a year before moving to the Kingdom and started following it faithfully, as each post gave me courage and reduced my anxiety about moving to this foreign land. Not only that, but it inspired me to create my own expat blog. Thank you Blue Abaya, keep up the amazing work! :)”

 

“Thanks for showing us the real and contrasting sides Laylah. Write more about the ordinary side of KSA.”

 

“Thanks a lot for the beautiful pictures. who would have thought KSA has such beautiful scenary….”

 

“Assalamu 3alaykom wr wb sis,
I ran across your blog recently, and I’ve enjoyed receiving your articles in my inbox, and browsing the archives. I really appreciate the work you’re doing, and I sincerely hope you’ll continue to write. Already you’ve inspired and encouraged me in the few weeks I’ve been acquainted with your blog, so I’m sure you’ve done the same for countless others. There will always be those whose wrongdoing discourages us and makes our work feel pointless, but Allah is the final Judge and Rewarder – keep writing to please Him
Your sister in Islam <3″

 

“Haha Laylah, you made my morning at office again – what a fun to read your humorous post!…”

 

“…thanks for your blog, its making this city a little bit easier to live in.”

 

“Hi. I just found your blog yesterday, but Have read through a lot already. Very very interesting posts… I hope you’ll write a whole lot more…”

 

“I just found this blog, and as a new expat in Riyadh I can’t begin to thank you enough. I will be reading the whole site over the next few days. The pages I have seen thus far are very well written, informative, and genuine. Thank you for taking the time to do this…”

 

“We are moving to Saudi next year and I just love your blog. Keep us updated on living in Riyadh. So looking forward to it!”

 

“Hey,
I had heard about your blog for a long time and I recently started reading it. I really appreciate your work as a recent expat to the Saudi community…”

 

“Hello from Canada, I Love your sense of humor. You made me laugh, and I really needed that today.”

 

“Blue abaya’s style of writing is witty and funny, she candidly describes exactly the same frustrations, trials and tribulations ex pats face living in the kingdom, she tells it so well! Keep up the good work!”

 

“Laylah tells us her real and personal experience inSaudi and that is why I love her blog. Although I may not totally agree with everything but she is one of the rare expats who truly embraces a different culture and doesnt complain too much hehe. She has a positive outlook on life and that is how everyone should live be it in KSA or USA. Love you Laylah”

 

“I am an avid fan…as others stated before, you have a unique style of communicating…open, funny and honest. I also live the experiences though your blog even though I have been living in KSA a number of years, guess am not as keen or adventurous…so it is fun to visit all the places from the comfort of my home LOL keep on blogging!”

 

“That is sooo unbelievably beautiful! And magical! I wish I handled cold better I might try to go! Thank you so much for sharing these. I’ve never seen anything like it.”

 

“I’ve been a reader for a while now and every time I come to your blog it amazes me. Your stories are interesting yet different compared to many other blogs, and at the same time your writings are honest, but Oh, for Pete’s Sake, you do your best trying to be fair. Afterall we Finns know a little bit about honesty, or at least we are supposed to. I don’t think many readers can get this. I know it’s hard to get accustomed to a new country and their traditions and cultural settings. I’ve been thru that too. But you coming from Finland to KSA. I don’t think I could have done that. Too many restrictions, but yet you seem to look at the glass half full! Keep on writing! “

 

“It’s pleasure to read your opinion about our lifestyle and culture in Saudi Arabia, it means a lot to hear this type of positive reactions about Islam and people here….”

 

“Asalamu alaikum,
I am on Blue Abaya because I love the writing, the pictures and more than everything to see an outspoken successful woman making the best of her life in KSA….”

 

“You make me no longer dread the impending move to Saudi! Thank you for you always entertaining commentary and wonderful outlook on life! You are fantastic, mashallah!”

 

“Was gifted your web name by a precious friend about to join the expat life. As a RN in South Africa with a few RN friends in Saudi I am amazed to see how beautiful it actually is through your hard work. Blessed thank you so much.”

 

“Wonderful blog and website. It’s been so useful since we arrived in Kingdom.”

 

“Thank you so much for your postings. Every since childhood I’ve been fascinated by the cultures of the dessert! Your pictures and posts make it come alive for me.”

 

“…Thanks for putting out such great information for all of us to access. It has been very helpful to me as I weigh my options.”

 

“I love your blog so much, I am from Canada and find it so interesting hearing a “western” view of the very different country of Saudi Arabia. I find it funny to see that the women in Saudi Arabia find Western women as interesting as I find them. If I could I would like to go to Saudi as you have described a very positive interesting and beautiful place. Keep on telling it the way it is as I look forward to reading your blog…I have read every post!!”

 

“Thanks for all of the good info. We are scheduled to arrive in country this summer. I’m trying to gather any “doss and don’ts” that I can. Love your blog!”

 

“Your blog is very informative, interesting and fun to read.  I’m definitely a fan!..

 

“Blue Abaya is a fantastic blog. The writing is entertaining, honest, and compassionate. The pictures are excellent, and the mood and feel of the blog transport me. I love the mix of cultures— glimpses of Finland and views of the Desert and real life in Saudi Arabia. It’s one of my very favorite blogs”

 

“This is so beautiful…I think you should publish a book with all these amazing photos of The Magic Kingdom. Just like you did the photo blog…I would definitely buy it.”

 

“Laylah, just wanted to say that I adore your blog and check in a couple times each week to see if you’ve posted anything new. When I first stumbled upon it I was absolutely delighted because although I’m America, my Dad’s family is from Suomi. And I’m in grad school studying the Middle East and Arabic. You offer unique observations and help demystify Saudi. I even cited your blog for my undergraduate thesis about modernity in Saudi Arabia. Keep it up and let the haters hate!”

 

“Hi Layla,
I just moved to Riyadh and I found your site helpful, funny and beautiful.I am Saudi by the way .
Thank you so much”

 

“This is the only blog I read. Enough said.”

 

“Wonderful post and photos such a positive message that you are sending!
You make me wish I were in Saudi Arabia! Did I just say that out loud???”

 

“Layla,
My son is an expat working in Arabia and, like others, I was apprehensive about his safety. I stumbled on your website and it made a huge difference in easing my mind. Thank you.
I am now looking forward to traveling to Riyadh to visit him. I would love to be there during Janadriyah…”

 

“You’re article deserves standing ovation, I dont know if you’re a Saudi or not But if you are you have my Oscar layla, I wish there are more people like You this world would become a living heaven!!” 

 

Thank you each and every one who commented! Words can’t describe how grateful I feel and how humbling it has been to read through all these…this has been the best reward for blogging so far and makes all the hard work worthwhile.

Love, Laura (aka Layla)

 

 

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  • MariaNovember 10, 2014 - 3:07 pm

    Thank you for the tremendous efforts Layla and welcome to Caroline!ReplyCancel

  • Susie Johnson KhalilNovember 11, 2014 - 8:50 am

    Ditto what all of them said! You are the most talented, the funniest, the best – I am so proud to call you my friend! xoxReplyCancel

  • ZahraNovember 11, 2014 - 12:45 pm

    Asalamu alaikum Layla! I am a reader from Algeria for many years already because I love your postings and beautiful photos of this land I so want to visit. I hope to see more of your humour posts in the future?? Will you be finishing the story of Sinta housemaid soon?ReplyCancel

    • LaylaNovember 11, 2014 - 3:59 pm

      wa aleikum salaam Zahra!

      thank you for being a reader and I promise to do my best for the final part of the Sinta story! I’m sorry for the delay, just so incredibly busy with the projects mentioned in this post and also remember I’m a stay at home mom of two very crazy toddlers! Life is hectic :)ReplyCancel

  • Bushra Qamar AhmedDecember 3, 2015 - 9:23 am

    Moving to ksa was scary and it was soooo difficult for me to find something fun for me here until I found blue abaya website:-)
    For all the places I visited including tourist sites, peaceful gardens, spa or shopping places in kingdom ,I have always followed the blue abaya website. The best thing I like about her is her honesty focusing details which are “actually” important or interesting.
    So thanks to you for your wonderful guidance on road trip to abha we followed exactly the same and checked all top ten things to do smile emoticon it made our Eid very special.
    Keep it up Layla ! Your blogs are as amazing as you are!
    Bushra qamarReplyCancel

  • LaylaNovember 18, 2014 - 2:35 am

    Thank you Leanne for reading and commenting :) Wish you all the best in your endeavors!ReplyCancel

How can a pumpkin cake be life changing, you ask? Well have you met a person who never tried pumpkin cake before?

Can you believe I lived on this planet for over 30 years without having experienced pumpkin cake, pumpkin bread or pumpkin cupcakes? This might come as a surprise to my American friends who are currently going through a pumpkin recipe frenzy for Halloween, Thanksgiving and Christmas season. Pumpkin recipes are literally coming out of every tube right now! Pinterest is on fire with wild pumpkin combos such as pumpkin pie fudge, pumpkin cinnamon rolls or how about pumpkin butter or ice cream?

Let me explain that in Finland where I come from, using pumpkin for desserts and cakes is virtually unheard of. Pumpkin is like a strange-looking hybrid between an exotic fruit and a basketball for us. It also does not smell that great, which implies it would not taste great either. Who in their right mind would eat something called KURPITSA anyways? If you’re curious about what Finnish baking is like and for some of my all time favorite traditional recipes, check out my Finnish Baking Pinterest board. Noor over at Ya Salam cooking is a fan of Finnish treats so you should check out her recipes too!

I must mention that while I was a kid my family lived in the U.S, and I do remember tasting pumpkin PIE.. Maybe the ones I tried were just terrible, but for some reason I never liked it. In fact the consistency and taste of the ooey gooey pumpkin filling just somehow put me off anything pumpkin related for 30+ years.

But as the curious person that I am, I thought, why not give this pumpkin thingy a second chance?

As I was looking through Pinterest for a pumpkin recipe that inspired me, I came across this recipe found on Nancy Creative’s blog. This was it I thought. The recipe sounded delicious and it sure was. It not only made me fall in love with the flavor, but I became obsessed with trying out other delicious pumpkin recipes. I could not believe what deliciousness I’d been missing all these years. My life definitely changed for the better :)

(Don’t miss these incredibly amazing recipes including many other pumpkin recipes I’ve gathered on my “Awesomest Recipes Pinterest board“!)

For some even stranger reason my husband, who spent half of his life in the States, was not a fan of baked pumpkin goodies either. In fact, he seemed very anti-pumpkin when I brought up the subject of going pumpkins one evening. I was so pumped up from excitement about my new found fascination for pumpkinery, that I could’ve started baking on the spot.

Me: I found an awesome pumpkin recipe, I want to try it.
Him: I hate pumpkin pie.
me: It’s not actually pumpkin pie, it’s pumpkin cake, same like banana cake or bread..
him: what? it can’t be good though.
me: why? Don’t be so anti-pumpkin. I don’t like pumpkin pie either, but when pumpkin is combined with the right ingredients, it’s supposedly amazing actually.
him: I don’t think so, pumpkin always tastes like pumpkin.
me: but this is not as pumpkiny as the pie. I don’t think there’s as much pumpkinness to it.
him: pumpkin just tastes so…pumpkin!
me: but you have to try, I promise it’s not going to be too pumpkinnish. I’ll make these tomorrow, just get me pumpkin first.
him; ok. but I doubt I’ll like them.
me:  you’ll love them, trust me.

pumpkin nutella bread recipe

And guess what? He not only loved it and finished the whole thing within hours, but requested I bake another two :)

Sometimes husbands just need some convincing and a gentle push because they might not be aware of what they’re missing out on!

Below is my version of the recipe from NancyCreative which was adapted from ‘Great Coffee Cakes, Sticky Buns, Muffins and More’ book.

FROSTING:
Life Changing Pumpkin-Nutella Cake

Life Changing Pumpkin-Nutella Cake

Ingredients

  • 1 3/4 cups all-purpose flour
  • 1 1/2 teaspoons ground cinnamon
  • 1 teaspoon baking powder
  • 1 teaspoon baking soda
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 1/2 teaspoon ground nutmeg
  • 1 1/2 teaspoon ground Finnish cardamon (I could not resist adding this to the recipe!)
  • few drops of vanilla essence or 1 teaspoon vanilla sugar
  • 2 large eggs
  • 3/4 cup light brown sugar
  • 1/3 cup granulated white sugar
  • 1/2 cup canola oil
  • 1 1/4 cups canned pure pumpkin puree (I used fresh pumpkin and it makes a world of difference!)

Instructions

  1. Position your oven rack in the middle of the oven, and preheat oven to 325 degrees. Grease and flour a 9 x 5″ loaf pan; set aside.
  2. Combine flour, cinnamon, baking powder, baking soda, salt, nutmeg, cardamon and vanilla in a medium bowl and whisk until thoroughly combined; set aside.
  3. In another bowl, or bowl of an electric mixer, beat eggs on medium-high speed for two minutes or until lightened in color. Add the brown sugar, mixing for about 2 minutes, then the granulated sugar, mixing for about 1 minute. Scrape down the bowl as needed.
  4. Drizzle in the canola oil with beater on medium-low. Reduce speed to low and add the pureed pumpkin. Mix until thoroughly combined. Add the dry ingredients in two additions and blend for 10-15 seconds just until incorporated. Don't mix too much!!
  5. Spoon the batter into your prepared loaf pan and bake for 60-65 minutes or until a toothpick inserted in center comes out clean. Cool loaf in pan for 10 to 15 minutes, then remove and cool completely on a wire rack. You really do need to bake these on low temperature for long time, mine took 10 min more to finish than the stated baking time.
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Heat a small jar of Nutella for 30sec in the microwave. Drizzle on top of the loaf. And you’re done!

I will add that this cake is absolutely heavenly even without the Nutella on top! It’s so super moist and rich in taste it’s perfect on its own too. But the Nutella does complement the flavors nicely :) Lets face it, anything drizzled with Nutella is delicious! So can you imagine how good this is? Give it a go and please let me know how it came out in the comments!

pumpkin nutella bread recipe

P.S. A Finnish friend of mine tasted this cake and she was super impressed and surprised how yummy this was, having had the same weird feeling toward using pumpkin in baking as me. We both thought this cake tastes a lot like the Finnish gingerbread. I highly recommend using fresh pumpkins for this! If you’re clueless (like me ) how make the actual pumpkin puree, check this tutorial by Sweet Spot blog: Home Made Organic Pumpkin Puree!

Enjoy!

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  • PiaNovember 4, 2014 - 3:18 am

    Jes!
    tein eilen ja oli mahtavaa! Kiitti :)ReplyCancel

  • LaylaNovember 4, 2014 - 3:32 pm

    Kiva kuulla! Olitjo aikaisemmin kokeillut tehda mitaan kurpitsasta vai oliko tama ensimmainen kerta sinullekkin?ReplyCancel

  • LaylaNovember 25, 2014 - 3:41 am

    Hi Meaghan!
    You can find nutmeg in Lulu’s, Danube and sometimes Tamimi. What I’ve noticed is the stock finishes quite quickly when the store gets it in..so you have to keep looking for it :) Good luck!ReplyCancel

  • MeaghanNovember 26, 2014 - 1:19 am

    Shukran!ReplyCancel

I’ve been silent for a while about my pet peeve subject..women driving..or women NOT driving. My last tongue in cheek take on it was about the driving campaign organized on the 26th of October 2013. Read about it in this post: “26th October, The Day the World Almost Came to an End“.

I recently came across a Saudi photographer Areej Adel’s work regarding the women driving and was just fascinated how well she captured the feeling of being “stuck” in the back seat..I’ve attached some of Areej’s photographs from her series “A Queen, But..” on this post. Her images stirred up a lot of feelings about this topic and I found myself writing yet another post (satirical rant) about it..Just as I had another very serious experience with my asthmatic son who is 2 years old and had a severe asthma attack while I was home alone with my kids. I was not able to take him to the hospital immediately since I have no driver, and there are no taxis available to hail down from street in my area ( diplomatic quarter). For a moment, I thought he would die in my hands. I do not wish that feeling on anyone. That incident really triggered me to write this post.

And who am I kidding here? The women (not) driving issue is one of the most, if not THE most debilitating, humiliating, oppressing and life quality-diminishing aspect of living as a female in Saudi Arabia. So this is personal, ya’ll.

And I know I’m not alone. There are thousands of men and women, Saudi and non-Saudi residents, who are fed up and want change.

Really. Enough is enough. It’s 2014.

Women need to start driving yesterday. We need to take our kids to school. We need to go to work, meetings and doctors appointments.

We need to have this basic human right NOW.

We are tired of being forced to rely on the unreliable drivers. We are fed up with taxi drivers that treat us like dirt.

We are really sick and tired of the perverts that cohabit that tiny space with us, and we have no other choice of getting to where we NEED to go but to deal with it.

We are done dealing with drivers lying, yelling or cursing at us. Not picking up their phones or showing up, leaving us in trouble. How many women have been dumped in the middle of roads because the driver had a bad day? If we found the rare gem driver who actually knows AND follows the traffic rules, he for sure will not be following our directions or wishes. Why? Because knows he has that power over us. And he will take full advantage of it.

How many women have been stuck at home with a sick kid, waiting for a driver for what seems to be forever? Worse yet if there’s a medical emergency? The despair and feeling of complete helplessness is unfathomable.

Only women living in Saudi Arabia will know exactly how utterly frustrating it is, seeing that little boy driving a car right beside us. While we are sitting in a car which we would be fully licensed, capable and WILLING to drive, yet find ourselves hurdled in the backseat, behind the blackened windows, feeling almost as if we don’t even exist.

 

"I Don

“I Don’t Like the Backseat”
© AREEJ ADEL photography

For crying out loud how does a male sexual organ license a person to drive?

It doesn’t matter if you’re underaged, heck even a kid.

No need for a driving license either. Everyone knows males were born licensed.

Driving skills? Who needs them if you’ve got the right chromosome! That means you have natural talent.

How about owning a car, valid international driver’s license and maybe even an exceptionally clean driving record? Nope ,they will not guarantee you can drive, if you lack that certain extra asset.

 

How did it become Islamically acceptable anyway, that this unrelated male, basically a stranger, that doesn’t even share a common language with us, who doesn’t even have a valid driver’s license from his country of origin, let alone a local one, is driving us around, among thousands other unskilled drivers such as him?

How on earth did this become the ‘safest’ option?

Is this not totally absurd?

Is this how Queens are treated, really? 

If women in Saudi Arabia are treated like the Queens they say we are, then why are we, more often than not, spoken to and treated like children?

Queens have power. Queens are respected. A Queen’s word is the last word.

I have the feeling there are no real Queens in Saudi Arabia. Only Princesses, driven around in carriages, that’s all. The elite 5% of the princesses might be lucky to have a golden carriage and a knight in shining armor driving it, but the rest of us pheasants are stuck with the pumpkins and trolls.

And then we have these nay sayers, telling us that allowing women to drive on the Saudi roads will cause problems such as, more cars on the roads, more traffic congestion.

Well here’s a simple math lesson for you:

Driver takes woman to work in the morning, drives car back home. Goes again in the afternoon to pick up woman from work, drives her home. In the evening driver takes woman to her parents house, goes back home. Comes late in the evening to pick up woman, drives her home again.

TOTAL= 8 car rides.

VS

Woman drives to work in the morning. Drives home in afternoon. Drives to parents house. Stays a couple of hours, drives herself back home.

TOTAL= 4 car rides.

See? It’s actually the other way around, dummies!

And that’s just one hypothetical situation, it could be even more rides back and forth with the driver.

How about the type of guy I mentioned at the beginning of this post? That guy who wants to keep his jewels protected? He doesn’t want women to drive nor will he allow his female relatives to drive themselves because…

The Saudi roads are SO dangerous! How could she possibly drive among those crazy, bad drivers?

YES indeed! Those EXACT same crazy and/or unlicensed drivers and dangerous roads where she is currently riding on, in the passenger seat.

How the heck is that different? Same traffic, roads and same crazy drivers! Actually, if women were driving on the roads, I bet you they would be far less crazy, less congested and less ridden with accidents.

Whoever came up with this genius excuse deserves the Nobel prize for Illogicality.

My dream is to drive on this beautiful desert road one day..

Desert treks

Check out the amazing Photography by a talented Saudi photographer Areej Adel, her series “A Queen But…” is visually powerful and thought provoking.

She says on her website about the Saudi Queens:

A Queen, But…” series tells a story of Queen who views the crown as a symbol of her power, and the suggestion that everything is under control of the crown. This Queen in fact is powerless and is treated like juvenile. In this series, you can capture the irony of how this “Queen” is perceived by herself and others. Sometime she feels her situation is perfectly acceptable and doesn’t understands that her rights are being suppressed, but in her depth she always knows there is something wrong in her life.”

 

© By AREEJ ADEL

© By AREEJ ADEL

 

 

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  • Karen BremnerOctober 13, 2014 - 6:00 pm

    I have just arrived in Kingdom and one of the things I am most glad about is that I am not able to drive. The roads are crazy and the lack of driving skills is terrifying. Surely a driving test and legal age limit is the first step before women get behind the wheel.ReplyCancel

    • LaylaOctober 13, 2014 - 11:46 pm

      Karen if you just arrived in the Kingdom maybe it’s better to settle and see what things look like after a while. Also, maybe it’s just a typo in your comment but saying “I’m glad about not being able to drive”. Not be able to do something can never be good, but choice is good. I think you meant “I’m glad that I have the option not to drive here, because the crazy roads scare me, but if a fellow woman wants to, she should have the right,just like all those crazy drivers do.” :)ReplyCancel

  • RawyahOctober 13, 2014 - 8:45 pm

    I agree 100%.
    We need to drive. We need to have the choice to drive or have a driver. I am so tired of having to reschedule my appointments because the driver is not available or busy or tired or not in the mood. I feel guilty that every time my husband comes home from a long day of work, I have to ask him to go out again because he is the only one the law allows to touch the steering wheel. I feel angry and frustrated when other women I talk to about this issue argue that having a man is safer or more feminine! The worst arguments I had about this issue were never with men. No they were reasonable in their discussions and many are supportive. But the women were the worst! It was shocking how they were welling to look down on other women who support the issue and call them “Liberal” or “westernized” or “shameless” or worse.

    I believe that the issue has been dragged on for this long, not because of religious or social reasons, but because “THEY” want the people to stay busy arguing with each other. There were many cases in which “THEY” ignored social and religious opinions and did what “THEY” like or saw beneficial. So we the citizens will keep arguing. THEY will keep listening and watching and waiting. And once it is decided what is best and beneficial to THEM then THEY will ignore all other opinions and do what THEY like..

    I hope the Magic Internet Fairy does not block your site Layla for this comment :)ReplyCancel

    • LaylaOctober 13, 2014 - 11:37 pm

      I guess the question is then, how do we convince “THEM”that allowing women to drive will be beneficial for “THEM”? What can THEY gain? The mother of all
      Questions. If anyone knows, please type it here. Maybe THEY really are listening ;)ReplyCancel

    • DaniatOctober 20, 2014 - 1:44 am

      Who is THEY?

      Someone please tell me??

      The police? I mean the Saudi religious police is what you are talking about???ReplyCancel

      • RawyahOctober 20, 2014 - 12:36 pm

        THEY = the ones who want to keep people busy and arguing so that that they won’t pay attention to the real important matters.
        And no they are not the religious police or the police but the ones who pay them their salaries :)

        * This is my own personal conclusionReplyCancel

        • LaylaOctober 21, 2014 - 12:22 am

          THEY = “The Others” lol have you seen that movie Rawyah?ReplyCancel

    • MinaNovember 22, 2014 - 6:46 pm

      I think when the prophet SAAS did not forbid me to go about my needs and I have permission islamically to do so what would a person care what others think of him ,her.I think the way we have to think needs to be beneficial to society.They want to prevent their women from anything: rumours ,bad image in society and other issues.Just we need to follow the islamic way and not the any extreme form of thinking.When we prevent our children from any experience in life when they go to other country to study they will be overwhelmed or they will commit any sins because they were so sheltered.ReplyCancel

  • Lynn GrabonOctober 13, 2014 - 10:25 pm

    Just do it! Stop talking about it and just do it! How many women per day can they actually arrest if every woman who wishes to drive gets behind the wheel every day!?! Just do it!ReplyCancel

  • Marvin ZeidanOctober 13, 2014 - 11:13 pm

    Women’s Right to Drive

    Everyone needs to help on spreading this quickly before the site is blocked by “the internet fairy”. A 1-2 minute video on why women should drive… any reason…

    My experience is that it’s better than having an 11 (maximum!) year old boy having to drive his mom and sisters to the pharmacy while creating havoc and endangering others’ lives because he can’t see the road and has to drive standing up… true story from this last Friday I kid you not… and he drove past at least 1 cop as I saw it.

    What about the economics of it?

    How many drivers sending millions back home out of the country each month… a quick calculation by any estimate shows a ridiculous economic leakage of funds that could otherwise be in women’s pockets spent in the local economy… not to benefit the government as it doesn’t need it but for the benefit of local businesses.

    Not to mention the jobs that women can’t can’t take because financing a car and paying a driver could mean that they end up paying out of their pocket to cover the costs while most want to work cause they need the money…

    Women & children’s safety from driver abuse. With no real address system ambulances can’t save men’s lives… I can go on..

    There, 5 reasons and I can think of a few more… I’m sure you can come up with at least one…ReplyCancel

  • RexOctober 13, 2014 - 11:17 pm

    Thought provoking and honest article. Just about said it all on Saudi women driving. Would you allow this to be reposted? I can’t seem to find the reblog option or copy the text. Thank youReplyCancel

    • LaylaOctober 13, 2014 - 11:39 pm

      Thank you! I need to disable the right click for this page or then I could email it to you?ReplyCancel

      • RexOctober 20, 2014 - 1:42 am

        If you don’t mind sending it over through email.
        ThanksReplyCancel

  • MarvinOctober 14, 2014 - 2:16 am

    What about the economics of it?

    How many drivers sending millions back home out of the country each month… a quick calculation by any estimate shows a ridiculous economic leakage of funds that could otherwise be in women’s pockets spent in the local economy… not to benefit the government as it doesn’t need it but for the benefit of local businesses.

    Not to mention the jobs that women can’t can’t take because financing a car and paying a driver could mean that they end up paying out of their pocket to cover the costs while most want to work cause they need the money…ReplyCancel

    • carlOctober 14, 2014 - 8:01 pm

      i read them all, and the post about the $$$$$ going out the country is the most compelling. $$$$ is how you talk to a man. we don’t understand much else. SorryReplyCancel

      • carlOctober 14, 2014 - 8:04 pm

        ill check yo see if my post was posted it… buttt i guess this site has a fairy of it’s own..

        Your comment will be published after moderationReplyCancel

        • LaylaOctober 15, 2014 - 1:33 pm

          tbh i didn’t quite understand what you meant by the comment, can you please elaborate, Carl?ReplyCancel

        • LaylaOctober 17, 2014 - 2:51 pm

          Rude and hateful comments and personal attacks will not be published by the Blueabaya fairy :)ReplyCancel

      • RawyahOctober 17, 2014 - 2:53 am

        Hi Carl,

        Saudi men don’t think this way. Actually Many non Saudi’s don’t think this way too.
        I met a Kuwaiti once who told me that she and her whole extended family and most people in their area don’t drive but rather have drivers.
        I met a girl from UAE who told me that she and her mother drive but still have a driver for the kids and other errands that require manly stuff. what I got is that she sees having a driver on demand is part of the prestige.

        As a Saudi woman, when talking to Saudi men, they rather pay the $$$$ than see their wives filling the tank, or loading and unloading groceries, or taking out the trash or changing a tire or facing car problems. These issues must be taken care of by a man. Many women share these ideas too and believe they need a man around to do these things when their husbands are not available. If the woman took out the trash for example, everyone will look down on the husband and accuse him of not taking care of his family.
        It is a different way of thinking. And it needs to be approached by someone who understand the our very protective culture.ReplyCancel

        • LaylaOctober 17, 2014 - 2:38 pm

          Thanks for replying to Carl, Rawyah.
          I still don’t get his comment and all the $$$$ :)ReplyCancel

        • MinaNovember 22, 2014 - 6:36 pm

          Hi Rawiah,I am an expat in Riyadh SA and live in an area that is more international but has saudis also.I go to the shop by foot and my husband too.Is that normal?I mean I walk a lot and sometimes alone because my husband feels tired from work and I am used to in my country to walk and the store is not far I carry my bag back home.Is that something unnatural in saudi to see?I do wear abaya and hijab.I don’t like to live inactive always driven or stopping walking will kill me ,it’s lack of moving so try to walk a lot!ReplyCancel

    • LaylaOctober 20, 2014 - 11:54 am

      Very true Marvin! Thanks for bringing those points to the table. There are countless ways that allowing women to drive would improve the economy and overall well being of Saudi Arabia’s citizens!ReplyCancel

  • Sally TomlissonOctober 14, 2014 - 8:59 am

    I have been in Kingdom nearly 4 years and seen some hideous sights on the roads here. I’ve also been a qualified driver for over 30 years and would much rather put my children’s lives in my hands by driving them myself, than the hands of drivers that have never been near a car before arriving in KSA. Whilst I appreciate some women do not want to drive in this country, surely we should all be working together to help those of us that do. It’s about basic human rights and having a choice, which females currently do not have in KSA. ReplyCancel

    • LaylaOctober 20, 2014 - 11:51 am

      Sally I agree with you 110%! It should be a choice, and I would also much rather have the lives of my children in my own skilled hands than random men who usually don’t know how to drive and share little to no concern about my or my children’s safety!
      It always shocks me when women don’t help each other out of solidarity, and even more so when they try to make life more difficult and take rights away form other women.ReplyCancel

  • Paulina KlijsOctober 14, 2014 - 9:13 pm

    Let us start recruiting professional women drivers first to follow Islamic rules so we don’t have to drive alone with rude impolite unqualified foreign men. This way they can get accustomed to see women driving. I personally know very religious women who are against women driving bReplyCancel

    • LaylaOctober 17, 2014 - 2:51 pm

      If they allow that, I’m applying for a job as a driver!
      yes I know some women are against it. I find it very strange because nobody is forcing anyone to drive!ReplyCancel

  • Michelle BarnesOctober 15, 2014 - 3:58 am

    Well said!!! The driving issue (and revolting drivers I was subjected to) is what finally broke me, so I left Saudi after living and working there for 8 years.
    Today, I drove my son to school, then drove on to work. Cheap, efficient, and not one near death experience or harassment.
    I hope all women in Saudi will have this choice.ReplyCancel

    • LaylaOctober 17, 2014 - 2:50 pm

      I hope so too, and that it doesn’t break me :(ReplyCancel

  • AliaOctober 19, 2014 - 2:15 am

    It is hard to accept that ladies of Saudi Arabia are willing to drive but not allow. You will not to organize better and ask for it more vocally.ReplyCancel

    • LaylaOctober 20, 2014 - 11:44 am

      Hi Alia, thanks for the support and comment.
      I agree it could be more organized! But also keep in mind that lots of Saudi women actually do NOT want to drive! And I know this might be hard ot believe but some are even AGAINST allowing their Saudi sisters to drive!ReplyCancel

  • Adam ArrozalOctober 23, 2014 - 1:03 pm

    Brave! I hope more Saudi women and men find the courage to stand up with you. Kudos to you Layla!ReplyCancel

  • Judy PennyfeatherOctober 23, 2014 - 10:08 pm

    Good for you, Layla. If they take this site down, simply create another and keep on going. ReplyCancel

  • Niki HydeOctober 24, 2014 - 8:29 pm

    Well written and much needed. Supporting this cause and have been for a long time.ReplyCancel

  • Margo CattsOctober 26, 2014 - 1:39 pm

    I’ve linked to this. Thank you for your courage, commitment, and honesty!ReplyCancel

  • Natural Facts | Foreign GirlOctober 26, 2014 - 1:49 pm

    […] an eloquent plea for change (which accompanied the Facebook conversation cited earlier), see “The Queens of Saudi Arabia Need to Drive” on the Blue Abaya blog. To keep up on the issue, Follow #Oct26Driving, #IWillDriveMyself, […]ReplyCancel

  • Fatimah AshworthOctober 29, 2014 - 10:53 am

    Granted that there are women out there that haven’t got trustworthy drivers at their fingertips.
    Granted that sometimes a lady is in dire need to go out and there isn’t anyone who can drive her.
    I am in full agreement that women need to be allowed to drive in Saudi Arabia. But I’d like to call your attention to the other side of the equation which has been conveniently ignored.

    [1] I agree that there are women out there that are responsible housewives who just want to do their duty and move on, but there also irresponsible women who all they want is to do is go out and attract attention to themselves, putting themselves very stupidly in the power of ruthless men ready to exploit such women.

    [2] The decision to allow only men to drive, was I’m sure, a measure taken to prevent the two genders mixing and subsequent harm coming from that. The fact that men were chosen over women, was because men are required in Islam to provide for their families, run their errands, and take care of them. If the man does not do that, then he will be questioned by Allah.

    [3] A woman is supposed to take care of her house and her children, yes or no? I don’t mean that she should be prevented from leaving the house at all, but I mean that in the same way that a man is required to leave the comfort of his home and go out to work and provide a living for his family (and he’ll be questioned about that by the way), then a women is required to stay at home a look after his family while he works for them. Right?

    If you come to the conclusion that I disagree with women driving in Saudi Arabia, then you’ve misunderstood me. I believe in women driving moderately. Those who have a sense of propriety and responsibility. Those who know that their first and foremost duty is to take care of her house and her children.
    You may argue that there are duties for women outside the house as well, like taking the children to school or to the dentist. I disagree. That is the man’s job. If he is away or busy, then it is his job to provide somebody to fulfil his original duty for him. And if he doesn’t? Than the job of the woman isn’t to slander the country or rant and rave about the injustice she is forced to face. No, her job in my opinion is to sit her husband down and give him a through talking to about his duties and priorities before anything else.ReplyCancel

    • radhaNovember 3, 2014 - 8:43 pm

      What about the women without husbands? the widows with no desire to remarry? what about women without kids ? how about super efficient women who can multitask?

      This has nothng to do with women staying home, just because women are given the power to drive doesnt mean they are going to go on rampage and start hanging around men.. — what irrational fear.

      again dont drive if you dont want to , sit your spouse an dlecture him , but why stop others who want to? why enforce your will on someone who is not similarly constrained?
      of course you have questiont he country’s laws, and criticize, it’s not my husband making laws that dont allow me to drive, it’s the people who rule and enfore the rule.ReplyCancel

      • Fatimah AshworthNovember 4, 2014 - 1:13 pm

        Of course. I understand your point about widows and single women with no men to drive them around. My point though if you read my comment closely, was not that women shouldn’t drive. On the contrary, I fully support the movement to allow women to drive. But I disagree with the way it is conducted. Slandering a country and insulting it ISN’T GOING TO GET YOU ANYWHERE, much less get the country you are living in to say: “Oh, I’m sorry that you don’t like this particular law. We’ll change it immediately.”
        Another thing which I meant when I posted my comment above, was that I wanted to point out the view the country took when they issued the law banning women to drive. They most probably took into account the widows, single women, and “super efficient muti-tasking” women, but from their point of view, the Cons outweighed the Pros, and so the issued the ban.
        You can’t for one second imagine that an upstanding country issued a law just because “they’re anti women” as many will have you believe. It’s only common sense that will tell you: Hang on a minute: THAT DOESN’T MAKE SENSE.
        A country usually studies the pros and cons of a decision before it makes it, so it follows quite nicely that they studied this particular decision prior to them issuing it. And that’s that.
        I trust that my point is made clear to all those who misunderstood me.ReplyCancel

    • MarieDecember 9, 2014 - 4:24 pm

      Fatima, truly, you think it a husband’s job to take the kids to the dentist? Then I say you have not sat through the many doctor’s appointments children require. Kids want their mother at such occasions, not dad. I know I did. I was so terrified of the dentist my mother would not tell me s we were going until the morning of, and then she would sit there with me in the dentist’s office. I didn’t want my dad for that, and he certainly wouldn’t have been much comfort! Women need to drive their kids not only to the doctor, but school and private lessons. I took dance and flute lessons, that my mother drove me to. My father was busy working. I can’t imagine that a young girl wouldn’t want to play on a team in KSA. Moms here are known as soccer moms, because all their kids play the sport, and they all drive them to the practices after school and on Saturdays. Be realistic. There’s no mixing of the sexes at these practices, it’s all soccer moms! And how on earth do you get the grocery shopping done? You expect your husband to do that too? How do you run errands, the dry-cleaning, pharmacy, bank, without a car? Driving is necessary!ReplyCancel

      • MarieDecember 9, 2014 - 4:46 pm

        When I said here I meant here in the United States. Sorry.ReplyCancel

      • LaylaDecember 9, 2014 - 8:13 pm

        Marie, most of the errands you mention are commonly done by the men of the family here. yes even groceries sometimes!ReplyCancel

  • Dee MangalinoNovember 2, 2014 - 3:41 pm

    I’ve been reading this blog for quite sometime now and can’t help to comment on this matter.

    In an expat point of view, women driving in Saudi Arabia have pro’s and con’s

    Pro’s are
    1. Economically, they can save money by not hiring Drivers from different countries.
    2. The burden of waiting for someone to drive you around is quite a pain in the ass. Plus the fact that that someone (either your husband, brother or driver) may have other appointment or things to do can be disturbing.

    Con’s are
    1. The streets in Khobar, Dammam, Riyadh & Jeddah are usually clog by cars improperly parked (no offense, but Saudis normally do this particularly near the restaurants and mosques during prayer time). Imagine a family of 5 having cars for each and everyone have their own activities.
    2. Everyday there are a lot of road accidents across the Kingdom because of reckless drivers (I in particular. ههههه). I noticed that women driving in Bahrain aren’t that reckless but their habitual texting while driving would be more similar if it happens in Saudi.

    Overall, women should still be able to drive. The con’s stated above can be resolved if all parties are willing to cooperate.ReplyCancel

  • LukeNovember 11, 2014 - 12:55 pm

    Human rights doesn’t need an apostrophe. Just saying.ReplyCancel

  • Bible ScholarDecember 10, 2014 - 10:43 am

    If queens drive, than they not called queen anymore but call driver/slave lolReplyCancel

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    The most dangerous thing a woman could do is get behind the wheel, she will then become a target.. Sad..ReplyCancel

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  • LaylaOctober 30, 2014 - 12:31 pm

    Thank you Jean for the comment all the way from Canada :)
    Indeed, it should be about the choice! Probably even most women here are NOT comfortable with the thought of driving, but those who are ARE, should be given the choice to do so.ReplyCancel

Whether people have travelled to Finland in order to experience Aurora Borealis or have seen them in photos or videos, Northern lights – as they’re also referred to as – are spellbinding for almost everyone. Here are ten interesting things you might not know about the amazing auroras, written by Thomas Kast, Aurora Borealis photographer and enthusiast living in Finland. All images on this post were provided by Thomas Kast, check out more of his amazing imagery of Finland’s Northern Light’s and guides on how to shoot the Auroras at his website Salamapaja.fi. If you’re interested in Finland’s Arctic Circle and Lapland, check out this post for more breathtaking images and information: 10 Cool Things from Lapland

10 Amazing Things about Northern Lights in Finland

10 Things you didn’t know about Northern Lights in Finland

1.  The words Aurora (the Roman goddess of dawn) and boreal (the Greek name for north wind) create the name Aurora Borealis. Auroras can also be seen in the Southern hemisphere, where they are called Aurora Australis or Southern lights.

2. There are many tales and beliefs about the mysterious Aurora Borealis. One folk tale from Finland tell the story of an Arctic fox that runs across the fell mountains of Lapland. Up and down the fells its way leads through a wintery landscape. The fox’s tail sweeps snow high up into the sky, and that’s how the Northern lights appear.

3. Northern lights are formed high up in the sky; 80km and higher. That’s why clear skies without clouds are needed. For some reason most clear nights in Finland, and the best times for seeing Auroras, occur around both equinoxes (September/October and February/March).

Northern Lights in Finland

4.     Auroras originate nearly 150,000,000 km away from Earth. Our sun sends clouds of charged plasma particles towards Earth, which is called solar wind. If that wind is strong enough, it penetrates our magnetic field and enters Earth’s atmosphere. There, the charged particles collide with oxygen and nitrogen to create colorful light. Auroras are ‘born’.Magnificent auroras over the frozen Baltic Sea.

5.    Most commonly Northern lights are visible in Northern Scandinavia (Lapland), Northern Russia, Alaska and Canada. In favorable conditions the ‘aurora zone’ expands further South.

6.    At the end of summer, the midnight sun fades away in Finland, making way for darker nights. Only then it becomes possible to see auroras. Many people are not aware that the season for Aurora-spotting in Finland begins as early as September and continues until March.

aurora reflections in finland by thomas kast

7.    During solar max the sun produces many bursts on the surface releasing solar wind. That is the best time to travel and hope to see auroras. Solar max occurs about every ~11 years and right now we are in solar max (2013-2015)

8.     Northern lights can appear in different shapes. A green curtain stretching all over the horizon is very common. As that curtain rises higher and travels through the sky more details can be visible, such as fast-moving needles. When the solar wind is strong, the lucky ones can see a corona opening up right above in the sky. Countless rays spread out in multiple colors. This usually lasts less than a minute. It is like looking into the soul of Northern lights and for many it is considered the most powerful experience.

Aurora Borealis Corona

Aurora Borealis Corona

9.  Auroras can be in the sky for only minutes or as long as the whole night. The colors are pale and usually not as vivid as in photos. The reason is in the camera, which is able to record these colors much stronger.

10.    To bring back some nice photos, a camera with manual mode is needed, as well as a tripod for sharp images and a flashlight. Temperatures at night can be anywhere between +5C…-40C, so spare batteries and appropriate clothing are a big advantage.

Only a small percentage of people actually live in the ‘aurora zone’ where Northern lights are seen frequently. That, and all the uncertainties of seeing the magic Aurora Borealis, makes it so special to see them. Every night is a surprise, you never know what to expect. After all, it’s up to that fox sweeping up snow into the sky..

Aurora Borealis Finland

 

“Northern lights are one of nature’s most amazing miracles”.

Thomas Kast is a landscape photographer living in Finland, spending countless hours in nature to capture auroras. Sign up at his blog Salamapaja to follow his adventures in chasing the Aurora Borealis in Finland’s Lapland.
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